读书记录（2004，女）

petitrois

雨珂妈妈 2011-12-22 08:40 威望 +2 生日快乐~
雨珂妈妈 2011-12-22 08:40 金钱 +2 生日快乐~
月下小楼 2011-12-21 11:31 威望 +3 补一句生日快乐！
月下小楼 2011-12-21 11:31 金钱 +3 补一句生日快乐！

多谢小楼和雨珂妈妈，大家同乐啊！

petitrois

外教的课停了好几次，今天终于接着上了，今天是第4次。她对答蛮好的，主要的问题，大概还是不知道说啥。词都在脑子里，但把哪个调动出来呢？下次老师同意说说Lincoln。本来我打算网上借2本Lincoln的书，谁知道选成了宇航员Ella和Washington。这次的书要赶快读完，赶快去换。

情商发育是个很大的问题。

活动：跑步、跳绳。太阳这几天都很好，PM2.5暂时看不到了。
听书：Nancy6，Alex。
读书：学而，逍遥游一段，佐贺。

幸福的花朵

不知不觉，你已经盖了这么高的楼了。加油啊，孩子发展挺全面的。不像我家，太偏执于学习。应该教会孩子幸福地生活，但我的境界达不到。越到高年级，心里越不能淡定。

petitrois

榴琏 2011-12-23 11:51 威望 +10 你家BB的情商我觉得已经很高了：）
榴琏 2011-12-23 11:51 金钱 +10 你家BB的情商我觉得已经很高了：）

哈哈，多谢肯定。她的情商肯定是比我高，这是很明显的。

petitrois

关于Lincoln的网站

Abraham Lincoln online

国会图书馆提供的（Quiz算是比较有趣的）
http://www.americaslibrary.gov/index.html

关于林肯的小故事
http://www.apples4theteacher.com ... coln/short-stories/

外教提供的林肯的一个Timeline, 童趣多一些。
http://www.pocanticohills.org/lincoln/lincoln.htm

petitrois

周五+周末

听书：依然是Nancy，终于规定，吃饭时不许听。
读书：学而，General，佐贺。

做饭：天使蛋糕，她要求并参与的，这是我们第一次做，但很成功。包饺子，她已经会擀皮了。
购物：独立去超市，购买牛奶（在货架最高的地方，她肯定要请售货员阿姨或者其他人帮忙才拿得到）、肉馅（包饺子用）、平安果（自述12块的苹果给她8块，是优惠了）。
取货：去京东校园店帮爸爸取TF卡（需要告知订货人姓名，付钱等程序）。

ssh_lh

原帖由 petitrois 于 2011-12-22 23:35 发表
外教的课停了好几次，今天终于接着上了，今天是第4次。她对答蛮好的，主要的问题，大概还是不知道说啥。词都在脑子里，但把哪个调动出来呢？下次老师同意说说Lincoln。本来我打算网上借2本Lincoln的书，谁知道选 ...

我女儿伊伊也是2004年9月的，她虽然看的书很多，但情商也感觉不高。
不过，我相信一点，人无完人，有缺点很正常。

petitrois

原帖由 ssh_lh 于 2011-12-26 00:14 发表

我女儿伊伊也是2004年9月的，她虽然看的书很多，但情商也感觉不高。
不过，我相信一点，人无完人，有缺点很正常。

您说的对，人无完人，优缺点很正常。太完美了未免是一种负担，也许反而妨碍前行。

petitrois

上次她的作业，外教改了之后，写信说：

I've checked your homework and it was very good! Page 12 didn't need any corrections, so I didn't include it in this email. There were just a few spelling and grammar errors that you need to improve. I enjoyed the riddles that you made, and I think your drawings of the shoes are nice. I think you will become an excellent artist in the future. Anyway, I'll see you tomorrow. Have a wonderful day!

虽说老外大多喜欢用夸张的方式称赞，但现在也有美国人反思这种方式，比如：

I actually cited several of Dweck’s works in my master’s thesis in the sections that addressed this issue. I’m a teacher of gifted students, and I have anecdotal stories as well as research findings with my own students that show how they’ve been crippled by being continuously praised for being smart. It was so vindicating, since I’d been telling my colleagues and parents of students for years to not praise kids for “being smart.” I love the rare occasion when my research validates what I know, rather than making me feel like I did it all wrong!  
My husband and I have already started using these principles with our 2-year-old son, although I’m sure he doesn’t really know the difference yet. We’re hoping to avoid some of the painful perfectionism I experienced, as well as the learned avoidance that my husband encountered in school. We’ll have to see how it works out…
I tell my gifted middle schoolers all the time, “No one cares how smart you are. We just don’t. We care how hard you work, how respectful you are of yourself and others, how kind and compassionate you are with your peers, and how coachable you are. No one gets into MIT or Harvard by being too smart to do the work. They get there by working their butts off and never quitting.” They tend to look at me like I have 2 heads, but they’re adolescents, so that’s kind of par-for-the-course. I’m just praying that it sinks in someday!

我比较喜欢这最后一段：
No one cares how smart you are. We just don’t. We care how hard you work, how respectful you are of yourself and others, how kind and compassionate you are with your peers, and how coachable you are. No one gets into MIT or Harvard by being too smart to do the work. They get there by working their butts off and never quitting.

但就我的情况来看，称赞反而是我应该学习的。

petitrois

周二+周三

年底了，她爸为了生活请客吃饭，我们这两天都作陪，周二外教的课都耽误了。她喜欢人，一说带她吃饭就很高兴。吃饭的意义不在吃饭，而在于能在席上多说些话。

昨天和今天，她都在复习木兰辞，又有点忘了，她想再记录记录。
听了两回三国演义，虽是不爱，但听着还是听着，听到董卓点人油灯，她只说恶心，其实并无义愤填膺的情绪。

Lincoln的内容，我除了把TimeLine打出来，又另外配了她去Springfield时在Lincoln’s Home前的照片。