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发表于 2009-10-30 18:00:40 | 只看该作者

回复 #55 贤妻良母 的帖子

今天让行行也来看看思思姐姐怎么学习的.
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-10-31 14:58:49 | 只看该作者
10-30-2009,思思8岁7个月16天

思思好爱猫狗,早晨一起来就去喂它们。





上午思思按照她的私人写作教练Mary的要求,认认真真地写作,我摸摸她的头,鼓
励她。

中午我们一家三口本来是要去看望Rex的,但是后来决定只是喜乐去,我和思思在家,
这样思思可以多学一点儿。

我给思思扎羊角辫儿的时候,她夸张地大叫, 说我弄疼她了。

我曾告诉过她很多次,我太爱她了,不想让她受一点点不舒服,她从小到大,我几
乎没怎么给她扎过辫子,就是不想弄疼她,我总想让她披散着头发,我觉得那样她
最舒服,有时候她的头发纠结在一起,我不是给她梳通顺,而是把那撮头发一把剪
掉。

同样的爱体现在她的穿着上,她所有的衣服都是百分百全棉的,都是有弹性的,而
且还宽宽大大的,图的是个舒适。反正在美国,没有人评论她的穿着打扮,她有充
份的自由,怎么随便怎么来。

前天她突然让我给她扎辫子,我轻轻给她扎了,她很得意自己扎辫子的样子,就天
天让我扎,我每天都是顺着头发松松地扎,怕她疼。

今天她夸张地大叫几声之后,我有点儿不耐烦了,说等她平静下来我再给她扎。她
说:“如果我疼你还不让我叫,我就是个傻子;我叫了你才知道我有多疼;如果我
不叫,你会让我更疼。”我听她说得好玩,就笑起来。

我跟她说:妈妈好喜欢看你扎辫子的样子,妈妈小时候也是扎这样的辫子,一直扎
到16岁,妈妈现在太老了,不能再扎了,妈妈看到你,就像看到妈妈自己小时候的
样子。

思思眼泪出来了,拥抱我说:我不想让妈妈老,我想让妈妈永远年轻,妈妈,你现
在就扎两个高高的辫子,以后天天扎辫子。

我抱着她安慰了一番,说:罪来到这个世界,我们都会生老病死,我们这个有罪的
身体不能进入天国,必须老去。主接我们的时候,我们都会得到一个完美的新身体。
完美的新身体跟完美的灵魂结合起来,我们就永远在天家跟神同在。在这个世界,
虽然我们的外形一天天地衰残,但我们的内心一天新似一天。

思思哭着说:我知道,我信。可是我就是不想让妈妈老,不想让妈妈死。

我说:妈妈不会死,你也不会,我们的灵魂永远不死,并且将来还会有荣耀的新身
体。主说过:“凡活着信我的,必永远不死,你信这话吗?”

思思说:我还是不想让妈妈老,妈妈,你现在就扎两个高高的辫子,像我一样。你
扎好后,我要给你一个surprise.

我扎好后,思思喜笑颜开,让我闭上眼睛,拉我走到课桌前,然后让我睁开眼睛,
我一看,是她用黏土做的小狗工艺品!谢谢这个好宝宝!


下午我去教课,把思思也带去了。每当我要教课的时候,都内疚,我教别人的孩子,
自己的孩子却没有办法学习。今天我教孩子们一首思思没有学过的中文歌,问思思参加不参加
我们,她说那些孩子太吵,她想自己在楼梯上读书。下课后她说她今天tried very
hard,读完了两本科学书。

我去教课前思思说,她每个礼拜四在TLC上课,教地质的老师每次上课都会给她们发
不同种类的矿石,她就很喜欢上他的课。她把礼拜三晚上在教会上AWANA圣经课上得
的巧克力糖带去了,每个孩子发了一个。她说这样孩子们就更喜欢来上我的课,我
就能挣更多的钱。

晚上回到家,思思学7年级数学,看科学书。

睡前家庭灵修,我们学的圣经是新约希伯来书第7章,思思说她最喜欢的经文是:For
it was indeed fitting that we should have such a high priest, holy, innocent,
unstained, separated from sinners, and exalted above the heavens. He has
no need, like those high priests, to offer sacrifices daily, first for his
own sins and then for those of the people, since he did this once for all
when he offered up himself. For the law appoints men in their weakness as
high priests, but the word of the oath, which came later than the law, appoints
a Son who has been made perfect forever. 感谢圣灵亲自带领她进入一切的真理。

祷告时,思思谢神让妈妈如此年轻。思思9点睡觉。

我的好宝宝,静享天赐安眠,明天妈妈还会扎辫子,妈妈要天天扎辫子。

[ 本帖最后由 贤妻良母 于 2009-10-30 23:04 编辑 ]
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发表于 2009-10-31 16:39:05 | 只看该作者

回复 #62 贤妻良母 的帖子

姐姐扎辫子真好看,如果转过来让我们看看就更好了.
行行这几天在家里制作他的"植物日记",希望能很快和大家见面.呵呵,他也喜欢写作.
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-11-1 01:19:22 | 只看该作者
原帖由 草木年华 于 2009-10-31 00:39 发表
姐姐扎辫子真好看,如果转过来让我们看看就更好了.
行行这几天在家里制作他的"植物日记",希望能很快和大家见面.呵呵,他也喜欢写作.



行行好棒啊,愿他的植物日记早日面世。告诉行行,阿姨翘首以待

我准备最少吃百分百生食6个月后才见人,生食的功效之一就是更新细胞,去皱,让
人重返青春
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-11-1 15:16:40 | 只看该作者
10-31-2009,万圣节前夕,庆祝主耶稣战胜撒旦,嘲弄主耶稣的仇敌

11月1日是基督教的万圣节,今天是万圣节前夕Halloween,晚上5点我们要到牧师家
参加Halloween Party,今天上午思思的忘年交Mary(也是思思的私人写作教练和游
泳教练)特意赶来我家,给思思送了一套公主裙,但是裙子太大了,不适合思思。喜
乐让我穿,我一试,还刚刚好。

思思盼望Mary来,简直是望眼欲穿,结果公主裙还不能穿,她失望地哭了,说自己
从小到大从来没有一件costume。我默默地看着她搂着她,说我理解她的心情。这个
宝宝如此甜美柔和,她说她穿自己的蓝长裙也行,泪中带笑,真让人疼爱。我说:
你只是公主裙不能穿,公主的戒指、魔棒、皇冠、耳环、项链,你都可以戴啊,配
你的蓝裙子也非常好看,思思高兴地穿上自己的蓝裙,戴上全副武装,去专心写作
了,还配合我拍照了,问我是否把耳环也拍上。她是如此甜美柔和,感谢神与她同
在。










上午思思除写作之外,还读了科学书。思思老想到图书馆去借经典小说,她时间紧
张,我怕浪费时间总没去,我告诉她,从图书馆借回来的那一堆科学书,只要读完
5本,我们就可以再去图书馆。今天她说她已经读完6本了,可是我们实在是太忙了,
没有去成。

狗妈要送给思思一条能帮助调节水族箱内部环境平衡的鱼,专门吃青苔的鱼,趁思
思写作的时候,我和喜乐赶紧把思思的水族箱清理干净了,除去了很多旧青苔,只
保留了一点点石头上的青苔。

下午2-4点我外出教课,思思和爸爸在家,我让思思先把写作完成,然后爸爸会教她
数学。结果她完成写作就该到牧师家了,她没有空跟爸爸学数学了。

我教完课,Shu借给我她女儿的睡美人裙,思思终于有costume穿了!


晚上5点我们到牧师家参加Halloween Party。我跟思思说,我们庆祝主耶稣战胜撒
旦,我们来嘲弄主耶稣的仇敌。撒旦已经被主踩在脚下,他对我们毫无权势,我们
在主里一无惧怕,今晚就是百般嘲弄撒旦的时候,显示我们最高信心的时候。

思思跟教会的孩子们一起,一家一家地去敲门要糖。今晚真是热闹,大家小巷全是人。
感谢神,在主里我们毫无惧怕。感谢神,借着这么多可爱慷慨的陌生人,带给我们
这么多快乐。






















这个人好可爱,一粒糖都没有,一人发一把钢蹦儿。





















思思要到了很多很多糖,她很有礼貌,称呼男士为sir, 女士为Ma'am,祝福称谢不
离口。她送糖给我的朋友Michele,又送给狗爸狗妈,她说还要送给我的学生,说今
天是她生命中最高兴的天之一(这句话别扭,是我翻译过来的,似乎有更好的说法,
但我想不出来)。

回到家,有人按门铃来要糖,思思就把她要到的糖又发出去。

喜乐没灵修,他吃了生牛排喝了红葡萄酒就昏然睡去:-( 洗澡后,思思和我的灵修
内容是:
Concerning Halloween
by James B. Jordan
August, 1996

It has become routine in October for some Christian schools to send out
letters warning parents about the evils of Halloween, and it has become
equally routine for me to be asked questions about this matter.

"Halloween" is simply a contraction for All Hallowsó Eve. The word "hallow"
means "saint," in that "hallow" is just an alternative form of the word
"holy" ("hallowed be Thy name"). All Saintsó Day is November 1. It is the
celebration of the victory of the saints in union with Christ. The observance
of various celebrations of All Saints arose in the late 300s, and these
were united and fixed on November 1 in the late 700s. The origin of All
Saints Day and of All Saints Eve in Mediterranean Christianity had nothing
to do with Celtic Druidism or the Churchós fight against Druidism (assuming
there ever even was any such thing as Druidism, which is actually a myth
concocted in the 19th century by neo-pagans.)

In the First Covenant, the war between Godós people and Godós enemies was
fought on the human level against Egyptians, Assyrians, etc. With the coming
of the New Covenant, however, we are told that our primary battle is against
principalities and powers, against fallen angels who bind the hearts and
minds of men in ignorance and fear. We are assured that through faith, prayer,
and obedience, the saints will be victorious in our battle against these
demonic forces. The Spirit assures us: "The God of peace will crush Satan
under your feet shortly" (Romans 16:20).

The Festival of All Saints reminds us that though Jesus has finished His
work, we have not finished ours. He has struck the decisive blow, but we
have the privilege of working in the mopping up operation. Thus, century
by century the Christian faith has rolled back the demonic realm of ignorance,
fear, and superstition. Though things look bad in the Western world today,
this work continues to make progress in Asia and Africa and Latin America.

The Biblical day begins in the preceding evening, and thus in the Church
calendar, the eve of a day is the actual beginning of the festive day. Christmas
Eve is most familiar to us, but there is also the Vigil of Holy Saturday
that precedes Easter Morn. Similarly, All Saintsó Eve precedes All Saintsó
Day.

The concept, as dramatized in Christian custom, is quite simple: On October
31, the demonic realm tries one last time to achieve victory, but is banished
by the joy of the Kingdom.

What is the means by which the demonic realm is vanquished? In a word: mockery.
Satanós great sin (and our great sin) is pride. Thus, to drive Satan from
us we ridicule him. This is why the custom arose of portraying Satan in
a ridiculous red suit with horns and a tail. Nobody thinks the devil really
looks like this; the Bible teaches that he is the fallen Arch-Cherub. Rather,
the idea is to ridicule him because he has lost the battle with Jesus and
he no longer has power over us.

(The tradition of mocking Satan and defeating him through joy and laughter
plays a large role in Ray Bradburyós classic novel, Something Wicked This
Way Comes, which is a Halloween novel.)

The gargoyles that were placed on the churches of old had the same meaning.
They symbolized the Church ridiculing the enemy. They stick out their tongues
and make faces at those who would assault the Church. Gargoyles are not
demonic; they are believers ridiculing the defeated demonic army.

Thus, the defeat of evil and of demonic powers is associated with Halloween.
For this reason, Martin Luther posted his 95 challenges to the wicked practices
of the Church to the bulletin board on the door of the Wittenberg chapel
on Halloween. He picked his day with care, and ever since Halloween has
also been Reformation Day.

Similarly, on All Hallowsó Eve (Hallow-Even ǔ Hallow-Eóen ǔ Halloween),
the custom arose of mocking the demonic realm by dressing children in costumes.
Because the power of Satan has been broken once and for all, our children
can mock him by dressing up like ghosts, goblins, and witches. The fact
that we can dress our children this way shows our supreme confidence in
the utter defeat of Satan by Jesus Christ ǔ we have NO FEAR!

I donót have the resources to check the historical origins of all Halloween
customs, and doubtless they have varied from time to time and from Christian
land to Christian land. "Trick or treat" doubtless originated simply enough:
something fun for kids to do. Like anything else, this custom can be perverted,
and there have been times when "tricking" involved really mean actions
by teenagers and was banned from some localities.

We can hardly object, however, to children collecting candy from friends
and neighbors. This might not mean much to us today, because we are so prosperous
that we have candy whenever we want, but in earlier generations people were
not so well o_, and obtaining some candy or other treats was something special.
There is no reason to pour cold water on an innocent custom like this.

Similarly, the jack-oó-lanternós origins are unknown. Hollowing out a gourd
or some other vegetable, carving a face, and putting a lamp inside of it
is something that no doubt has occurred quite independently to tens of thousands
of ordinary people in hundreds of cultures worldwide over the centuries.
Since people lit their homes with candles, decorating the candles and the
candle-holders was a routine part of life designed to make the home pretty
or interesting. Potatoes, turnips, beets, and any number of other items
were used.

Wynn Parks writes of an incident he observed: "An English friend had managed
to remove the skin of a tangerine in two intact halves. After carving eyes
and nose in one hemisphere and a mouth in the other, he poured cooking oil
over the pith sticking up in the lower half and lit the readymade wick.
With its upper half on, the tangerine skin formed a miniature jack-oó-lantern.
But my friend seemed puzzled that I should call it by that name. `What
would I call it? Why a "tangerine head," I suppose.ó" (Parks, "The Head
of the Dead," The World & I, November 1994, p. 270.)

In the New World, people soon learned that pumpkins were admirably suited
for this purpose. The jack-oó-lantern is nothing but a decoration; and the
leftover pumpkin can be scraped again, roasted, and turned into pies and
muffins.

In some cultures, what we call a jack-oó-lantern represented the face of
a dead person, whose soul continued to have a presence in the fruit or vegetable
used. But this has no particular relevance to Halloween customs. Did your
mother tell you, while she carved the pumpkin, that this represented the
head of a dead person and with his soul trapped inside? Of course not. Symbols
and decorations, like words, mean different things in different cultures,
in different languages, and in different periods of history. The only relevant
question is what does it mean now, and nowadays it is only a decoration.

And even if some earlier generations did associate the jack-oó-lantern with
a soul in a head, so what? They did not take it seriously. It was just part
of the joking mockery of heathendom by Christian people.

This is a good place to note that many articles in books, magazines, and
encyclopedias are written by secular humanists or even the pop-pagans of
the so-called "New Age" movement. (An example is the article by Wynn Parks
cited above.) These people actively suppress the Christian associations
of historic customs, and try to magnify the pagan associations. They do
this to try and make paganism acceptable and to downplay Christianity. Thus,
Halloween, Christmas, Easter, etc., are said to have pagan origins. Not
true.

Oddly, some fundamentalists have been influenced by these slanted views
of history. These fundamentalists do not accept the humanist and pagan rewriting
of Western history, American history, and science, but sometimes they do
accept the humanist and pagan rewriting of the origins of Halloween and
Christmas, the Christmas tree, etc. We can hope that in time these brethren
will reexamine these matters as well. We ought not to let the pagans do
our thinking for us.

Nowadays, children often dress up as superheroes, and the original Christian
meaning of Halloween has been absorbed into popular culture. Also, with
the present fad of "designer paganism" in the so-called New Age movement,
some Christians are uneasy with dressing their children as spooks. So be
it. But we should not forget that originally Halloween was a Christian custom,
and there is no solid reason why Christians cannot enjoy it as such even
today.

"He who sits in the heavens laughs; Yahweh ridicules them" says Psalm 2.
Let us join in His holy laughter, and mock the enemies of Christ on October
31.

睡前思思祷告,感谢神让她如此快乐。

我关灯前,她说:“妈妈,你真漂亮。我爱你,good night。”

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 楼主| 发表于 2009-11-2 00:48:32 | 只看该作者
11-1-2009

结婚这么多年,我从来没有管过经济,从10月份起,我开始记录食物消费,不记不
知道,一记吓一跳。今天早上我给思思看10月份的买食物记录,从10月1日到10月31日,
共花979.95美金。思思说:“Wow! 爸爸太爱我们了!我们这么穷,他还花这么多钱
给我们买raw food(生食),我以后一定要好好吃生raw food。”

我说:“从11月1日起,我只吃raw food,任何熟食都不吃了。”

10月份我们是95%以上的生食,偶尔会吃犹太无酵软饼、有机胚芽面包,这些都是熟
的,里面没有酶。我们去教会金秋嘉年华会、思思朋友的生日宴会、昨天的庆祝万
圣节前夕聚会,还吃了一些垃圾食品------美式食物。

喜乐说:虽然10月份我们花了这么多钱,但是10月份买的东西我们没有全部吃完,
我们还有很多很多的坚果、种子、深海鱼油、香草、香料、生蜂蜜、酵素等等等,
那些东西能吃好几个月的,11月大概只花300美金买买蔬菜水果就够了。”

喜乐的工作重地,给我们做生食的地方。
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发表于 2009-11-2 10:42:39 | 只看该作者
贤妻良母旧帖专辑-一

应贤妻良母的邀请,从今天开始陆续贴出她的旧帖,方便我们学习。因为还要上班和照顾小宝宝,所以可能不是很快 。我是转帖我乃贤妻良母下的帖子,如有遗漏,请告知补充。

发表于 2002-11-18 17:06  



爱小坏爱小坏,您好!

这是第三遍写这个帖了。我的电脑有问题,录入中文老出麻烦。

喜欢读您的帖,思维缜密,语言精炼。您的“深情回忆”系列是否继续在写?愿早日读完这一系列作品。

在我认识您以前,我自认为很重视对我女儿的智力因素和非智力因素等各方面的培养。认识您以后,我才惊觉,我好多方面做得不够,尤其对她的智力开发更是欠缺。

关于早期认字和阅读,有了您的“伟大”实践,我再读日本、美国、中国大陆的早教专家的最新研究,觉得越读越有意思。

感谢您在早教这一前沿科学上的探索。认字直接作用到神经元,是最好的智力体操。越接近零岁,语言文字的学习能力越强。

上封帖我曾告诉您,我将向您讲讲我的苦恼。还没来及告诉您,我的苦恼已经烟消云散了:-)

我曾因为我可怜的女儿没有书而深深苦恼,她学的是繁体字。现在书已经有了,通过以下四种途径解决:

一、有个中文学校图书馆破例让我免费无期限不限数量借书:-),书较全。

二、我丈夫找到一个美国的售中文书的网址,信用卡付款,第三天书就到了。

三、我用薄一些的影集给我女儿做了几本书,一页插图片,对页插文字。她很喜欢这样的书,现在以2天一本书的速度在进步,每学一个词,她都去另外的书上找出相应的物品或直接找实物,学得很快乐。

四、我可以把她原有的书加工成一本新书,因为同一幅图画可以写出很多句子嘛。

现在我有以下问题请教您:

一、我发现我女儿把“大”字读成“火”,不知道是不是字小没看清。我常常惊叹她的记忆力,从没有给她复习过。现在我觉得有必要给她复习了。我记得,成年人的记忆规律,好象是学过之后的七天内要每天复习,那么幼儿的记忆规律是怎样的?我女儿满20个月了。我从来没有看到过幼儿记忆规律方面的详细的研究资料,您是否知道?

二、美国早教专家有两派意见,一派认为,婴幼儿应多睡眠,睡眠时血液流向大脑,能益智。另一派认为,婴幼儿时期记忆力最旺盛,应该让脑神经不断接受刺激,不应过多睡眠。您如何看?

先写到这里。看能否发出去。

以后我还有问题请教您,不光是认字和阅读方面的。

请回复。谢谢!
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回复 #67 mtryshy 的帖子

这个睡多睡少的问题我还真是相当地迷惑呢,盼着下集
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-11-2 11:13:37 | 只看该作者
原帖由 mtryshy 于 2009-11-1 18:42 发表
贤妻良母旧帖专辑-一

应贤妻良母的邀请,从今天开始陆续贴出她的旧帖,方便我们学习。因为还要上班和照顾小宝宝,所以可能不是很快 。我是转帖我乃贤妻良母下的帖子,如有遗漏,请告知补充。

发表于 20 ...





亲爱的安安妈,谢谢你的鼓励。真如你所说,对孩子的教育,真的是一场马拉松,
拼的是家长的毅力。真高兴你选择在这里记日记,一定要坚持下去。

你贴的非常好!真过意不去你用上班的时间抽空贴。你真是好妈妈,把晚上和周末
的时间都给孩子,不被网络牵拌。

你就慢慢贴吧。这是一场马拉松。

我看到你说“方便我们学习”,让我惭愧不已。其实是方便我自己学习。真的,以
前犯了很多错误,当然现在也正在犯错误。当我看到孩子以
前是那么可爱,就更
增加了我现在要尽可能少犯错误的决心。

如果我有第二个孩子,我会不会不像当初那样紧张忙乱?

[ 本帖最后由 贤妻良母 于 2009-11-1 21:02 编辑 ]
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-11-2 13:04:46 | 只看该作者
原帖由 草木年华 于 2009-11-1 18:49 发表
这个睡多睡少的问题我还真是相当地迷惑呢,盼着下集



亲爱的行行妈,圣经说,我们受造奇妙可畏。我想,听身体自己的声音,顺应神的法
则,我们就能最健康。婴孩什么时候睡,什么时候醒,顺其自然,不要人为干预,
这是最好的。刺激脑应该是在孩子自然醒来之后。
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