讨论一下如何培养孩子的EQ

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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">今天看到一篇文章</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">, </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">上面介绍世界上著名的</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">CEO</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">百分之八十是高</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">EQ</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">而百分之二十是高</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">IQ. </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我们也许不一定指望孩子有多么的出色</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">, </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">但一定希望他们将来成为快乐</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">, </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">乐观的人</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">. </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我在网上找到一些观点</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">(</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">是英文的</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">, </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我译的不太好</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">), </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">希望能和感兴趣的父母们讨论讨论</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">. </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">下列的行为能回妨碍孩子的</span><font face="Times New Roman">EQ<span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">的发育</span><font face="Times New Roman">. <p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore"><font face="Times New Roman">1.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">不要再那么讲话</span><font face="Times New Roman"> (Don't ever let me hear you say that again) <p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore"><font face="Times New Roman">2.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">你不应该有那种感觉</span><font face="Times New Roman">. (You shouldn't feel that way) <p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore"><font face="Times New Roman">3.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">你应该感到羞耻</span><font face="Times New Roman">(You should feel ashamed. ) <p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore"><font face="Times New Roman">4.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">你应该感激</span><font face="Times New Roman">, <span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">感到幸运</span><font face="Times New Roman">, <span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">感到高兴</span><font face="Times New Roman">.(You should be grateful... You should feel lucky... You should be happy... ) <p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore"><font face="Times New Roman">5.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">怎么还在笑</span><font face="Times New Roman">(Wipe that smile off your face.) <p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore"><font face="Times New Roman">6.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">我不想再听到抱怨了</span><font face="Times New Roman">(I don't want to hear any more complaints.) <p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore"><font face="Times New Roman">7.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> </span></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">想一想还有许多人比你差呢</span><font face="Times New Roman">(Think of all the people who have it worse than you.)<