【转帖】外语神童岂能闭门造

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<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" width="579" border="0"><tr><td width="579" bgcolor="#ffffff" height="19"></td></tr><tr><td width="579" bgcolor="#ffffff" height="10"><table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" border="0"><tr><td background="../../images/dd.gif" height="1"><img src="http://bddsb.bandao.cn/images/c.gif" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /></td></tr></table></td></tr><tr><td width="579" bgcolor="#ffffff" height="19"><span class="f14">　　</span></td></tr></table><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3">http://cache.baidu.com/c?word=%D4%AC%3B%BA%E8%3B%C1%D6&url=http%3A//bddsb%2Ebandao%2Ecn/news/smlt/200411060001%2Ehtm&b=0&a=97&user=baidu#0</span><table style="WIDTH: 434.25pt; mso-cellspacing: 0cm; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" width="579" border="0"><tr style="HEIGHT: 14.25pt"><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: #ece9d8; 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PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: #ece9d8; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: white; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BORDER-LEFT: #ece9d8; WIDTH: 434.25pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: #ece9d8; HEIGHT: 14.25pt" width="579"><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">　　《北大硕士闭门要造外语神童》是</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">11</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">月</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">4</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">日《都市快报》的一则报道。拥有北京大学硕士和南开大学博士学历的 <span style="BACKGROUND: #ffff66; COLOR: black">袁鸿林</span> 说：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">“</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">去年</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">6</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">月起我就不让女儿上幼儿园了，今后也不打算送她进学校。按照我的早教方案，女儿至少可以比同龄人提前七八年博士毕业。我的目标是把她培养成反应敏捷的同声翻译或掌握多种语言的全球性信息情报类高级研究者。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">”</span></span><span lang="EN-US"></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">　　其实，袁先生的这种教育方式，古已有之，并不是他的独创。封建社会</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">“</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">生于深宫之中，长于妇人之手</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">”</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">的皇子们，个个都是被当作神童来造就的。袁先生还张榜招收五六个同龄孩子给女儿</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">“</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">陪读</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">”</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">，也没有什么新鲜的。封建社会</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">“</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">陪太子读书</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">”</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">，多少人求之不得呢，皇帝倒不必像袁先生这样张榜招收。可是皇子、太子们怎样？至少不像我们想象的那样，有经天纬地之才，相反见到的多是</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">“</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">一代不如一代</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">”</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">，亡国败家者层出不穷。</span></span><span lang="EN-US"></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">　　袁先生拥有高学历，在某些领域有专攻，但并不意味着能做一名好的幼儿教师，他的教育效果还需要时间来验证。一个正常人应该是社会人，把孩子关在家里教育如同剥夺了孩子参与社会、快乐成长的权利，恐怕得不偿失。</span></span><span lang="EN-US"></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">　　当然，如果袁先生下了足够的工夫，实现了孩子</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">“</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">比同龄人提前七八年博士毕业</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">”</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">，他的孩子成了</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">“</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">反应敏捷的同声翻译或掌握多种语言的全球性信息情报类高级研究者</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">”</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">，那又如何？那就证明孩子是</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">“</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">人才</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">”</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">了？我看不然。评价人才的标准不仅仅要看他掌握了多少知识，还要看其适应社会的能力。这种把孩子包裹起来的</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">“</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">脱敏</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">”</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">教育很可能让孩子丧失一种生存能力，时间一长，孩子个性发展也有可能不完整。</span></span><span lang="EN-US"></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">　　</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">“</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">可怜天下父母心</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">”</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">。袁先生的</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">“</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">望女成凤</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">”</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">的苦心我们可以理解，但按照他的方式到底能造出什么样的人来，即使是博士也未必完全清楚。　　　　　　　　　　</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">□</span></span><span class="f14"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">子非我</span><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"></span></td></tr></table><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span>此帖由 huge57 在 2006-06-24 22:36 进行编辑...

wo1978

不能拨苗助长,万事万物都有它自己的规律

hykfq

爸爸自己教孩子没什么错啊，教育本来就是多元的，不一定非要统一一种模式，比如，都去参加学校的教育。学校按一种模子教育孩子，套不进的，就是问题学生（如小爱迪生），这些人真是问题学生么？他们在被硬套进模子里时会不会痛苦呢。如果父母能理解他们，又能教育他们，把他们的痛苦变为快乐，何乐而不呢？不过，教育的结果也是多元的，如果孩子将来没有读博士，或成为了一个平凡而快乐的人，爸爸能不能承受呢？

taoqian

为什么一定要把小孩培养成博士，小孩自己有此想法吗，还是做爸爸的一厢情愿？这样孩子会快乐吗？

d07

我想，小孩就算没有成为博士，她的能力相对的也较其他小孩好很多。