【转帖】拉住爸爸的手

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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 3.1pt 0cm 0pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">拉住爸爸的手！</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue"> </span> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">如果父母以「不經風霜難以長成大樹」為名，不為年幼的孩子遮風擋雨，不去摟抱孩子哭泣中顫抖的肩膀，孩子必然變得孤僻、陰暗、自私。 (我是一名图书编辑，以下是我的写作)</span></i><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><font face="Times New Roman"></span></i><font face="Times New Roman"><font face="Times New Roman"><font face="Times New Roman"><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">孩子來到世界之前，我們作父母的，得到過他們的允准嗎？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">沒有。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">所以，孩子，孤單的孩子，藍天之下，大地之上，你能夠慢慢抵擋那些即將穿過胸膛的風和雨嗎？儘管社會越來越昌明，然而世事艱難，不可預料。一想到這，憐子之愛，舔犢之情，便從內心湧起，使我們禁不住要去牽住孩子小小的手，為孩子單薄的身影擋避那寒風冷雨。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">愛孩子，這是人之常情，可是，讀者朋友，您會</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">「</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">愛</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">」</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">嗎？或者說，孩子需要的怎樣的</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">「</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">愛</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">」呢？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">下面是兩個不同的育兒案例：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 3.1pt 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">★★★一個父親和他六歲的女兒安妮在海邊散步，安妮玩得很開心，因為沙灘上有很多漂亮的貝殼，她拾了滿滿一竹筐。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 3.1pt 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">她吃力地提著一竹筐貝殼跟在爸爸身後，慢慢地就跟不上了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 3.1pt 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">「爸爸，您能幫我拿一下嗎？」安妮說道。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 3.1pt 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">「自己的事自己做。」爸爸冷冷地說。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 3.1pt 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">「爸爸，我實在是拿不動了，求您幫我拿一下。」安妮哀求道。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 3.1pt 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">「安妮，忘記了爸爸對你的教育了嗎？碰到困難，要自己去克服，不能這樣求人！」爸爸有些生氣了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 3.1pt 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">安妮漸漸落在了後面。爸爸回過頭生氣地說：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 3.1pt 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW">「安妮，你可以扔掉一些貝殼！」</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 3.1pt 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体; mso-han

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又是一个冠冕堂皇的例子，要装模作样地教育家长，还真把家长当孩子！这世上有十全十美的教育方法吗？