【原创】用哭声来逃避惩罚

jim77

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">其实楼主大可不必紧张</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">不需要问孩子一系列的问题来和孩子交流</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">因为孩子还小</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">她不会去回味你话中的深意</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">如果是我</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">我就轻描淡写的说一句</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">我以为是什么大事呢</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">吃过饭后爸爸和你一起修好它</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">”.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">至于修好修不好是其次</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">. </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">其实我的做法是想告诉孩子</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">这是小事情没有必要哭哭啼啼的</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">但是既然是你弄坏的</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">那你有责任参与修理当中</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">. </span>

双双妈

ealain+2006-01-20 00:28-->引用:ealain @ 2006-01-20 00:28 <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt">其实我们俩挺相似的，因为孩子的懂事听话，会一厢情愿地认为给孩子讲讲大道理，他就能自觉自愿地接受我们的训导和建议。其实不然。他们以后还会犯同样的毛病，只是以其他方式出现。<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt">不过，我还是在不停地讲着，也许教育就是这样吧。

很感谢,我也许太过敏感