【注意】培养孩子的责任心要靠身教

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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.55pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 13.75pt" align="center"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">培养孩子的责任心要靠身教</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 黑体"></span> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.55pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 13.75pt" align="center"> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 黑体"><font face="Times New Roman"></span> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.6pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.3pt"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">家长是孩子的启蒙老师，其影响力是巨大的。</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;&quot;">父母自身对家庭、对社会的责任心如何，对孩子来说是一面镜子，大人在</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">日常生活的点滴行为都被孩子看在眼里、记在心上。</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;&quot;">从一定意义上讲，父母的责任心水平可以折射出孩子的责任心，</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">一个负有责任心的父母，孩子也会习得相应的积极的行为方式，难以</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;&quot;">想象，一个对家庭、对社会毫无责任感的父母，能</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">给孩子正面教育，能</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;&quot;">培养出很有责任心的孩子。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;&quot;; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.6pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.3pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;&quot;; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt"><font face="宋体"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.6pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.3pt"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">责任心和其他道德准则一样，都不能单单靠口头说教，而只能由孩子从外界的吸收中取得。孩子的可塑性很强，模仿是他们的天性，孩子在生活的各种环境中，习惯对自己的喜欢的人进行模仿，从而塑造自己的品质。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.6pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.3pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">在孩子的眼中，父母具有绝对权威，父母的言行会对孩子产生潜移默化的影响。因此，</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">家长应努力做有责任感的好家长，要求孩子办到的事、自己首先要做到；要</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">为孩子做遵守诺言的榜样，无论作出什么许诺，都要尽可能地实现，如果不能实现的话，一定要向孩子说明。反之，</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">如果父母做事总是不守诺言、推卸责任，那么即使你给孩子再多的口头教导也不会起到任何作用。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span lang="EN-US">[url=http://www.clcf.com.cn/][/url]</span></span></span>此帖由 听语漫步 在 2006-01-16 16:23 进行编辑...

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