【推荐】6种情况不能打孩子，4种情况可以打孩子

jenny2004 · 发表于 2009-4-7 12:11:49

如果可以，我绝对不打孩子。positive discipline could be more ways other than beating. I remembered that my son(3 yrs old) touched the power plug once and i shouted at him and he was shocked at that moment and then began to cry loudly. I just waited him cry for a while and then i sent him to the blue chair (punishment chair) and i explained to him all the possibilites and let him know how much i love him and i really dont want to lose him by any accidents. now he never touch that and whenever he wants to do it, he will call for my help. i am sure that i will let him do while he is getting elder, now safety first. i am glad to see his performance like this.

show your care and be friend with him would be the first choice.

huich99 · 发表于 2009-4-7 15:35:25

真的是经典美文！打与不打，费思量。虽有此不能打与可以打的标准，但分寸其实很难把握。也只有根据自己孩子的实际情况，灵活运用了。当然，还是要谢谢这一经验总结！

肯大爷 · 发表于 2009-4-13 16:29:07

觉得LZ的说法有理，不是不能打，要掌握好原则

talang1999 · 发表于 2009-4-13 16:46:52

很有道理啊！学习了

lzm_16888 · 发表于 2009-4-14 08:33:34

看了才知道自己有时一直在犯错

butterfly494 · 发表于 2009-4-14 11:19:35

我赞成及时惩罚以及屡教不改需要打。。。有时候跟他说了多少遍道理他就是不听，遇到这种情况，打一下，是一个比较有效的结束不良行为的方法。。。

annieyhf · 发表于 2009-4-14 15:25:17

了解了，谢谢～～～～～

yuhongrun · 发表于 2009-4-15 22:11:55

哎，现在教育孩子真的很难，打不得骂不得说不得，有的时候包包真的会让人觉得发疯的。

hacker_cn · 发表于 2009-4-16 05:36:29

孩子所犯的错误，父母自己也在犯
首先要以身做责才行

rosemary_ren · 发表于 2009-4-16 09:36:48

打不是个好法子。我狠不起来，打一半放弃更糟糕哦。还是慢慢沟通，孩子嘛，不能要求跟大人一样

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