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建立孩子用餐禮儀，可讓小朋友在用餐前後，幫忙做一些準備與收拾的簡單工作；用餐中可教育孩子碗筷不可敲敲打打、咀嚼食物中不可說話等。

Teach your child's table manner by asking him to help prepare for a meal
and to clean up after a meal. While eating, teach your child table
etiquette such as not hitting the table with his chopsticks or bowl as
well as not talking with his mouth full.

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孩子在學習上，時間愈長並不意味效果越好。「專注力」也會影響學習的效果，注意力的集中時間大約在5~10分鐘，建議任何學習的安排，應以不超過30分鐘
為宜。

In terms of learning, a longer length of time doesn't necessarily mean a
better result. "Concentration" also influences learning result. A child
can concentrate for approximately 5 to 10 minutes. Thus, it is suggested
that any learning activity should not exceed 30 minutes.

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孩子有時會因與其他小朋友玩得過火，或在刺激過多的環境下變得過度興奮或激動；如果因此造成行為失控，可先將孩子帶離現場且轉移他的注意力。

A child may at times become overly excited when playing with other
children or when in a stimulating environment. If the child loses
control, parents should take the child away from the environment and
divert his attention.

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父母對孩子從小就應該建立「長幼」的觀念，如果有弟妹直呼兄姐的名字時，也適時的告訴他應該稱呼哥哥或姐姐；讓年幼的弟妹習慣禮貌的稱謂。

Parents can help with their child's understanding of relationships by
having him say "brother" or "sister" to his siblings.

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對待個性較為害羞內向且不善表達的孩子，父母除了需要細心的觀察，也可以用比較輕鬆的態度鼓勵孩子說出要求。

Dealing with a child who is shy and unable to express himself, parents
need to carefully observe and encourage him in a calm manner to express
his desires.

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孩子的各方面學習可以與生活情境相結合，為讓孩子認識日常所吃的「食物」名稱，不妨帶孩子到傳統市場或超級市場一起購買東西。

Use daily situations to teach your child a variety of different things.
To teach your child the names of certain food items, you can take him to
the supermarket to shop together.

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父母平常處理事情的想法或態度上會影響孩子，如果您常用沮喪心情面對事情或嘴上掛著說：「我怎麼那麼倒楣呀！」，反而容易造成孩子日後在事情處理上是悲觀
、負面的態度。

A parent's own opinions and attitudes of dealing with certain situations
can also influence a child. If you face a problem in a negative and
pessimistic manner, such an attitude can lead to your child dealing with
situations in the same way.

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當孩子不禮貌的進行一件錯誤的事，而造成他人的不愉快時，父母應該立即阻止且直接地告訴他：「不可以打人喔！」或「你這樣說是很不禮貌的。」

When a child acts impolitely and hurts others, a parent should stop him
immediately and directly tell him that it's wrong to hit others or what
he is doing is impolite.

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為孩子準備屬於他的清潔工具，如：小掃帚、小水桶，讓他負責一小塊地方如遊戲間等，這能增加孩子的責任感以及對勞動的興趣。

Teach your child the importance of household duties. You can have him be
in charge of cleaning a certain area such as the playroom. You want your
child to be responsible but also have fun too!

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父母和孩子在打掃時間時，可一邊勞動、一邊哼唱兒歌或童謠，甚至跟著韻律做動作，讓孩子同時邉又?w又能提昇其語言能力。\r
Parents can take advantage of the time when they are cleaning to do
certain activities with their child. For instance, you can sing together
while you clean. You can even try doing certain movements along with the
music. By doing so, you help your child improve his coordination and
language skills.