【原创】关于孩子多动症~

宝宝心理专家

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">（</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">1</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">）多动症是一个较长时间的心理问题。儿童什么时候开始患有多动症，不象其他疾病那样能够说出确切的发病日期。家长及儿童在开始治疗多动症前，可能已有相当长的一段时间意识到这个问题，并总想加以解决。一般儿童多动症往往在上学之后才能作出诊断，多数在二三年级的时候显得明确起来。但是多数多动症儿童在学龄前已出现症状，不过那时侯的行为标准由家长来决定，常采取十分宽容的态度，对这些多动行为不以为然，总认为孩子小、不懂事，等长大了会变好的。到了开始上学，儿童由家庭走向社会，由个体走向集体，许多行为都有一定的标准和规定，不能任意行事，例如上课不能迟到，听课不能讲话，发言要先举手等等。如果儿童达不到规定要求，就不会再被宽容、听之任之了，多动症问题也就暴露出来。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">　　据有人研究认为，多动症问题从出生就开始了。从小就缺乏</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">&quot;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">自我</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">&quot;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">功能，不能完善地适应周围环境，对母亲缺乏适当的反应，母婴间关系不协调，母亲感到自己的孩子很难带养，缺乏养育信心，总以为自己犯了什么错误，可能产生要么过多地保护婴儿，要么对婴儿漠不关心。这样两种截然不同的态度，会影响婴儿</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">&quot;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">自我</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">&quot;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">功能的发展。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">　　（</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">2</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">）多动症儿童各方面的功能都会受到影响。多动症的核心问题是注意障碍，表现出缺乏自我控制能力。无意义的多动是最常见的表现，动作无目的、无规定、无定向的乱动，有时带有暴发性或突击性冲动</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">学习困难也是多动症的一个突出症状</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">约</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">50-60%</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">的多动症儿童有不同程度的学习困难</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">有的语文困难</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">有的数学困难</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">有的在运动协调功能方面出现困难</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">如写不好字</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">画不成画，不会做手工操作，经常受伤等。不服从管理、不遵守规则是多动症的一个严重问题，有的多动症儿童从小就不听话，不服管，不遵守规则，自行其事，社会适应功能障碍，人际关系紧张，日后可能发生说谎、偷窃、逃学、斗殴、自伤、伤人以及犯罪等不良行为。对多动症产生的不良后果应有足够的认识。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">　　（</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">）家庭和学校对多动症儿童治疗要起重要作用。家庭和学校是儿童成长的两个关键场所，对多动症的治疗应起重要的作用。整个家庭包括父母兄妹、奶奶公公及其它成员都应关心多动症儿童的问题和成长，要对他们表示理解、同情和分忧，不要歧视或责怪。父母是儿童的第一老师，要把自己的经验、知识、感受、技巧都传授给儿童，为儿童树立好榜样。学习好处理技巧，在多动治疗中起关键作用。学校、老师和同学对多动症儿童问题也应有足够的认识，要关心和爱护他们，帮助他们克服困难树立信心，有条件时可为多动症儿童建立个别化教育。家庭和学校要听取医生的建议、指导，配合好治疗工作。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">　　（</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">4</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">）要有治疗信心和决心。多动症治疗可以取得满意的效果或使危害后果减小到最低限度。目前治疗多动症的方法较多，其中药物治疗效果较好，但时间较长，要有信心和决心使他们健康成长。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">5</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">）音乐治疗法。音乐治疗法见效期间比较长，但是效果不反弹甚至会改变孩子一生的性格。而且治疗成本低，方便，只需放</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">CD</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">音乐即可，当然不是所有的音乐都可以的，如果是烦躁不安的和不规律的音乐，如</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">DISCO</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; 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