【分享】“早开的花朵”挑战迟到的性教育

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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 5px" align="center"> <font color="#0000ff" size="4"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt">“早开的花朵”挑战迟到的性教育</span> <p style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 5px" align="center"><span class="nine" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><font color="#000000" size="2">来源：<span class="nine"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt">中国教育报</span></span></span><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 5px" align="center">　<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 5px" align="left"><font color="#000000" size="2"><span class="nine" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><font color="#ff0000" size="3"><span>随着人们物质生活水平的提高，青少年的青春期发育大大提前，有资料表明，目前小学五、六年级<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">30%</span>的男孩和女孩有了性成熟的标志。初中一、二年级是青少年成熟的高峰，在家长、教师还把他们当作孩子看待的时候，他们实际上已经在向成年过渡了。城市现代化进程中多元文化的进入，无疑增加了青少年抵抗各种诱惑的难度。青少年成长之猛，社会发展之快，令原本有限的青春期教育面临着更大的挑战。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"></span>　　青春期的性教育，不仅仅指性生理、性心理等基本知识的教育，同时也是一种人格教育，包括性道德、性法制教育以及具体的行为指导。性教育的最终目的，并不是要传授给青少年大量的性知识，而是要让他们学会正确的性态度和正确的性行为，获得身心的健康发展。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"></span>　　 家校相互推委　教育姗姗来迟 <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"></span>　　青春期教育事关青少年一生的健康成长，本应成为学校、家长以及社会的共同责任，但在现实中，作为教师和家长的成年人往往对青春期教育问题采取回避的态度。据深圳市的一项调查，该市中学生中<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">67.7%</span>的女生和<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">58.7%</span>的男生在月经初潮或首次遗精时毫无心理准备、无人指导，<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">46.8%</span>的女生初潮时感到恐慌。回避的结果只能是加大他们的逆反心理和好奇心，从非科学渠道获取性知识，甚至进行错误的体验，酿成终身无法补救的遗憾。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"></span>　　不久前，北京一起官司被炒得沸沸扬扬——因儿子早恋辍学，母亲状告对方家长。这起全国首例“早恋官司”，虽然最终以男孩母亲缺乏证据被驳回起诉而结束，但它留给人们的思索却远没有结束。这位母亲苦心营造的“真空教育”，终于在儿子的早熟和叛逆中被彻底打碎了。由此我们看到，家庭在青春期教育中的缺失。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"></span>　　据一项统计调查，大部分家长承认性知识是一门学问，应该去学习，但能积极主动进行青春期知识教育的家长只占<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">7.05%</span>，多数家长羞于启齿，与孩子在性与生殖健康方面的交流存在一定的障碍，教育方法缺乏，甚至教育思想错误。调查还显示，家长多指望学校来开启青少年性知识的大门，认为学校应该主动积极地开展这方面的工作。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"></span>　　家长把敏感话题的教育让给了学校，学校怎么做呢？面对来自社会各种渠道“性”信息的冲击，学校显得无能为力。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"></span>　　我国目前学校开展青春期教育普遍时间较晚，很多学校安排在初中二年级或初中三年级，没有能够与当今青少年的生理及心理发育现状同步，所开展的青春期教育基本属于补漏洞式教育，缺少超前意识。许多学校认识不统一，认为青春期教育可有可无，或者推委责任，认为青春期不好教育，应属于家庭教育的范畴。也有的学校虽然很想向学生提供这方面的教育，但却苦于没有理想的教材，教育缺少科学性。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"></span>　　另外，教师对授课时机、授课内容的度和量也感到很难把握，没能得到社会的普遍支持。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"></span>　　 青春不可重来　教育必须科学 <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"></span>　　青春发育不能等待，青春期教育必须适时；青春经历不可重复，青春期教育必须科学。青春期教育的缺失和失误，将在青少年成长史中留下无法弥补的遗憾。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-f

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的确，对于中国的青春期教育，是一个值得关注的问题。