【分享】我喜欢这个,可是经常作不到,

爱小爱

不知各位有没有和我一样的?

八根儿

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这么短的就直接贴嘛，</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">彼此彼此。。。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果能在孩子的成长历程中</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">站在他们的角度去了解事情</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">将胜于只给物质的满足</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这些全非金科玉律</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">却能使为父母者重新审视自己的角度。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">1</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别溺爱我，我很清楚的知道，不应该得到的每一样我所要求的东西，我只是在试探你；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">2</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别害怕对我保持公正的态度，它反倒让我有安全感；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别让我养成坏习惯，在年幼的此刻，我得领先你来分辨它；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">4</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别让我觉得我比实际还要渺小，它只会让我愚蠢地装出超出我实际年龄的模样；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">5</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、如果能够，请别在人前纠正我的错误，你私下的提醒，会让我更加的注意自己的行为；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">6</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别让我觉得我犯的错误是一种罪，它会降低我的人生价值观；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">7</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、当我说“我恨你”的时候别太沮丧，我恨的绝对不是你，而是那降在我身上的压力；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">8</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别过度地保护我，怕我无法接受一些“后果”，有时候我需要经由痛苦的方式来学习；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">9</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别太在意我的小病痛，有时候我只是想得到你的注意；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">10</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别唠叨不休，否则有时候我会装聋作哑；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">11</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别在仓促或无间中做下允诺，请记住，当你不能信守承信时，我会是多么的难过；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">12</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别忘了我还不能把事情解释得很清楚，虽然有时候我看起来是有能力的，这也是为什么我不能事事正确无误的缘故；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">13</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别太指望我的诚实，我很容易因为害怕而撒谎；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">14</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、请别在管教原则上前后不连贯，不持续。它会使我疑惑，而对你失去了信任；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">15</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、当我问问题的时候，别敷衍我或拒绝我，否则你会发现我终将停止对你发问，而向它处寻找答案；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">16</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别告诉我说，我的害怕很傻，很可笑，如果你试着去了解，便会发现它对我是多么的真实；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">17</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别暗示或让我感觉到你是完美，无懈可击的，当我发现你并非如此时，对我将是一项多么大的打击；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">18</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别认为向我道歉是没有尊严的事，一个诚实的道歉会让我对你更加接近，对你感觉更温暖；</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">19</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、别忘记我最爱做实验。</span>

仄日庆

谢谢分享，写的真好。

bychen

谢谢分享