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你打算在孩子多大时对他进行爱情教育?

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发表于 2012-2-29 11:05:55 | 只看该作者
现在应该还算不上是爱情教育,但是儿子有时候跟我说他会喜欢谁谁谁的,我也不会大惊小怪。我只是对他说:“如果你要找女朋友,什么时候都可以,但是你不能因为你要给女朋友送什么东西而跟我要钱。”呵呵,很实际吧。

我跟儿子说,你要找女朋友,就要让她幸福,没有经济能力,没有钱,怎么办呢?我只会负担你的费用。

儿子之前也说过,喜欢班里一个学习比较好的女生,但现在也不喜欢了。因为他自己的成绩也很好,人又聪明,而且又长得比较帅, 所以也有几个女孩喜欢他,当然,是他自己觉得人家喜欢他。 我们也不当回事,现在又说那些对那些女孩子都没感觉了。

这是一个漫长的过程,有一些东西需要家长教,有一些需要从影视书本中学,还有一些需要孩子自己去悟,当然,也有很多是天份,随他吧,只要不走歪路就成。
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 楼主| 发表于 2012-2-29 11:13:49 | 只看该作者
原帖由 menghuan 于 2012-2-29 11:05 发表
现在应该还算不上是爱情教育,但是儿子有时候跟我说他会喜欢谁谁谁的,我也不会大惊小怪。我只是对他说:“如果你要找女朋友,什么时候都可以,但是你不能因为你要给女朋友送什么东西而跟我要钱。”呵呵,很实际 ...



menghuan 你说的真好
做家长的碰到孩子说喜欢这类话的时候,不去大惊小怪,甚至严厉制止,很多时候孩子也会慢慢淡忘,转移自己的注意和兴趣
反倒是家长如果过于紧张,制止,孩子的叛逆心或者好奇心一起,事情的发展可能就不受控制了

中学更是个敏感期,家长的引导会更加重要

但是就如menghuan你所说,爱情教育真的是一个漫长的过程,孩子在这个过程中会慢慢长大,会有点磕磕绊绊,但是只要我们家长记得随时扶正孩子的陆,他们总会顺利平安走下去的

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menghuan + 10 + 10 谢谢幸福版版表扬。:)

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发表于 2012-2-29 11:41:40 | 只看该作者

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发表于 2012-2-29 11:49:25 | 只看该作者
另外,这里有些pre-teens爱情故事讨论:
http://www.ihav.net/vb/books-com ... re-teens-16360.html
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发表于 2012-3-1 06:46:54 | 只看该作者
嗯,爱情小说是个好选择,我十几岁时可是看了不少,一天两本的速度是常态啊。

另外,在十二三岁的时候,给机会让孩子去交往也是好的。
让一切都发生在你眼前,总比背着你发生一些完全不可接受的事更好。
孩子和父母的关系好,你自然第一时间知道很多事,可以帮忙出主意甚至出力,就不至于发生什么让人后悔的事啦。
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发表于 2012-3-4 21:52:02 | 只看该作者
我家女儿现在最喜欢的一个幼儿园小朋友就是坐在她对面的小男生!
当然,幼儿园之前上早教的时候,她有一个王子,经常一起玩的小男生,暑假里俩人打电话,就说:
--王子,我快要回上海了!
--公主,我从海边带了贝壳要送给你!
外婆在旁边听了电话要笑死了。

这个爱情教育,一定要从娃娃抓起,不论年龄,如果他有这方面的问题,就和她讨论,给他建议,各家孩子经历这方面事情的年龄不一样,所以时间也不一样啦!
我们是女儿,所以更加要注意,注意培养她对人的鉴赏能力,以避免以后陷入一些不必要的情感的纠结中。
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发表于 2012-3-4 23:06:23 | 只看该作者
有机會就教育也是一種方法, 多多少少耳儒目染也是不錯
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