3岁愚童齐，论语慢慢读

春花

原帖由 WINGOO 于 2010-10-24 10:08 发表
3遍+P7

现在齐跟着我就是不读，只能跟着齐爸读。
多谢齐爸
儿子欺负人啊。。。。

他跟着我的时候只能我不停的读。

我说早点读好出门玩，跟了几句，停了；
我说你不读妈妈出门了，跟了几句又停了；
...

“前辈”想很有禅意地说：读吧，有任何问题，就读吧......

呵呵。

fanguoyun

我也会在没招的时候，也会吼顺顺的。你们家这样也挺好的，严父慈母，家里出容易出人才呀！我们家就我一人教顺顺，又要当“严父”又当“慈母“。
还有就是要说到做到，否刚，你说话就不管用了。

WINGOO

第四遍完成；

整个上午大家都在忙碌，没读；放了一会BIBLE;

下午在路上，回到家4点，5点开始读，到6点半；15，16；
不清晰的让他读清楚；这一要求，就慢了

晚上7点多一点-近9点；17-20；

读完18，换人，换成齐爸；
齐开始哭，明显是哭给我听；

被吼了几句，齐接着哭；我觉得就是哭给我听的；
总不能去安慰吧，呆在客厅；

最后听见

齐：宝宝要休息一会嘛！
齐爸：不是休息过了嘛？刚才不是让你哭了这么久了嘛，
齐：没休息过啊，刚才读完一篇啊
齐爸：哭的时候读了嘛？
齐：*&T$#@!@$
齐爸：没读不是就是休息了嘛

我在外面听着哭笑不得；
越想越觉得爷俩好笑；

最后总算安抚好了；

跟齐爸读的快多了；

[ 本帖最后由 WINGOO 于 2010-10-26 08:31 编辑 ]

WINGOO

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同时再问问春花姐，如果全部读完后，又忘了真的没什么吗？因为我觉得等上了小学可能没这么多时间一直再复习的，即使再读也会上新的内容的。
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读过三百遍后，每月复习一遍，基本上是会终生不忘的。
这里面还有一个关键就是，这种有口无心地读，读到自然而然地背下来，一点都别强求背，这样的背诵是最持久的，就是已经和孩子的生命熔为一体，他会不思而得，就是想忘都忘不了了，但是也不一定一字不差，这是不必要求的。
我们读经，是把圣人的言教大量重复，重复多了，在他的生命中会形成“象”，这种“象”是用这些“言”感觉出来的，他“得象”可以“忘言”，再进一步是“得意”而“忘象”，而这些重复很多遍的“言”，能最大可能地触开孩子的悟性，就像是孩子生命中的免疫力一样，而人在每一次生命的升进的过程中，那个“象”和“意”又会有变化，其实就是自已的心灵不断地在长进，在他犯错误的时候，会由于这些根源性的道理的言教的提醒，而少走弯路，及时的有可能有最深反省，别人是吃一百次亏也反省不到位，而读了经典的孩子，可能会一次失败一下就会想起经典中的语句，而一次二次三次很少次就反省到位，就改过迁善了，就修德徏义了，甚至由于这些根源性道理的熟悉酝酿，好多歧路侥幸已经化解于无形了，从这里我们也可以体会颜回不迁怒不贰过，是多么地厉害呀。
上个星期，多多妈给我打电话说，大姐，多多现在基本上就是背的了，也不看书，该怎么办呢？我就笑了，说，你想想当初你让孩子读的时候，想不想让孩子背呢？她说，想啊。我说，那孩子现在自然而然地背下来了，你怎么又不高兴了呢？她想了一下，就笑起来。呵呵。孩子在真正开口踏踏实实地读过150遍左右的时候基本上都能背下来，有的孩子120遍就背下来了，有的需要200遍，其实最后的结果都是一样，有时父母看到差不多都能背下来了，又来了高要求，想一字不差，多多妈是这样，我就告诉她，你别急，就是再读下去，或者让孩子背，因为这时孩子是爱背的，不会的地方提醒，用不了几遍就一字不差了。一字不差后就再巩固一段时间，其间某一天还会有退步的时候，这都无所谓，不必执着于这些小芝麻而忘了大西瓜，就看大的方向，小的细节的错误都会在功夫的纯熟中逐渐消磨掉。
您就读吧，不必考虑还没发生的事情，当您领着孩子把《论语》读过300遍的时候，您就不需要问我这些问题了。

[ 本帖最后由 WINGOO 于 2010-10-26 08:30 编辑 ]

WINGOO

昨天半部任务没完成，所以今天补。

早上1-7；11,12；
我带，读了2个小时，还是要求不太高的情况下。
齐目前的常态是小声；
有时含混不清，有时陌生；有时很顺；

晚上至少还要读1小时，但是都是4+状态，
5遍应该是完不成啦

天天妈妈爱天天

原帖由 WINGOO 于 2010-10-24 20:53 发表
3遍 +P15；

齐三进世博园；早上去之前读了今天要完成的量的一半；进园就晚了；
乍看一下，护照基本盖满了；
其实热门馆都没去，中国馆，沙特，美国；俄罗斯；德国；
比较遗憾的是俄罗斯；

今天去了挪威 ...

齐妈真是佩服你呵，孩子出去玩还能按照完成读的量。我们带天天来北京旅游，本来想学你，带了易经和音频来的，这都一个多星期了，从来没读过。白天是疯狂的玩，晚上倒头就睡，一觉到大天亮，唉

天天妈妈爱天天

原帖由 WINGOO 于 2010-10-26 18:53 发表
昨天半部任务没完成，所以今天补。

早上1-7；11,12；
我带，读了2个小时，还是要求不太高的情况下。
齐目前的常态是小声；
有时含混不清，有时陌生；有时很顺；

晚上至少还要读1小时，但是都是4+状态， ...

我每次没完成的说要补，都没补过什么，看着齐妈的进度，惭愧呵

WINGOO

记下昨天，晚上读了13-16；算是前一天拉下的基本补齐。

齐爸说你今天读这么多吗？
我说要的，不然怎么办呐？
随着时间的拉长，他开始遗忘，我可不想前功尽弃。

昨天晚上我在旁边听，已经有进步了。
这几天的纠结，咬牙还是有效的

谢谢大家鼓励，我们加油，争取早日上道。
现在比前几天还是好一些了。
好像冷车启动，开起来不顺吧。

10遍，20遍后，好比热车了吧。

最近心境不稳也影响我对困难的承受力；
其实本来可能没什么

加油吧

WINGOO

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Teachers’ Top 100 books

This list was compiled from an online survey that ran at this Web site during the spring of 1999. Parents and teachers alike will find it extremely useful in selecting quality literature for children. You might want to compare this with Kids' Top 100 Books. The similarities and differences may surprise you.
1. Charlotte's Web by E. B. White (9-12 years)
2. The Polar Express by Chris Van Allsburg (4-8 years)
3. Green Eggs and Ham by Dr. Seuss (4-8 years)
4. The Cat in the Hat by Dr. Seuss (4-8 years)
5. Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak (4-8 years)
6. Love You Forever by Robert N. Munsch (4-8 years)
7. The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein (All ages)
8. The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle (Baby-Preschool)
9. Where the Red Fern Grows by Wilson Rawls (Young Adult)
10. The Mitten by Jan Brett (4-8 years)
11. Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown (Baby-Preschool)
12. Hatchet by Gary Paulsen (9-12 years)
13. The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe by C. S. Lewis (9-12 years)
14. Where the Sidewalk Ends: the Poems and Drawing of Shel Silverstein by Shel Silverstein (All ages)
15. Bridge to Terabithia by Katherine Paterson (9-12 years)
16. Stellaluna by Janell Cannon (4-8 years)
17. Oh, The Places You'll Go by Dr. Seuss (4-8 years)
18. Strega Nona by Tomie De Paola (4-8 years)
19. Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day by Judith Viorst (4-8 years)
20. Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What do you see? by Bill Martin, Jr. (Baby-Preschool)
21. Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl (9-12 years)
22. The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams (4-8 years)
23. A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L'Engle (9-12 years)
24. Shiloh by Phyllis Reynolds Naylor (9-12 years)
25. How the Grinch Stole Christmas by Dr. Seuss (4-8 years)
26. The True Story of the Three Little Pigs by Jon Scieszka (4-8 years)
27. Chicka Chicka Boom Boom by John Archambault (4-8 years)
28. Little House on the Prarie by Laura Ingalls Wilder (9-12 years)
29. The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett (9-12 years)
30. The Complete Tales of Winnie the Pooh by A. A. Milne (4-8 years)
31. The Boxcar Children by Gertrude Chandler Warner (9-12 years)
32. Sarah, Plain and Tall by Patricia MacLachlan (9-12 years)
33. Indian in the Cupboard by Lynne Reid Banks (9-12 years)
34. Island of the Blue Dolphins by Scott O'Dell (9-12 years)
35. Maniac Magee by Jerry Spinelli (9-12 years)
36. The BFG by Roald Dahl (9-12 years)
37. The Giver by Lois Lowry (9-12 years)
38. If You Give a Mouse a Cookie by Laura Joffe Numeroff (4-8 years)
39. James and the Giant Peach: A Children's Story by Roald Dahl (9-12 years)
40. Little House in the Big Woods by Laura Ingalls Wilder (9-12 years)
41. Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry by Mildred D. Taylor (9-12 years)
42. The Hobbit by J. R. R. Tolkien (Young Adult)
43. The Lorax by Dr. Seuss (4-8 years)
44. Stone Fox by John Reynolds Gardiner (9-12 years)
45. Number the Stars by Lois Lowry (9-12 years)
46. Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of Nimh by Robert C. O'Brien (9-12 years)
47. Little Women by Louisa May Alcott (All ages)
48. The Rainbow Fish by Marcus Pfister (Baby-Preschool)
49. Amazing Grace by Mary Hoffman (4-8 years)
50. The Best Christmas Pageant Ever by Barbara Robinson (9-12 years)
51. Corduroy by Don Freeman (Baby-Preschool)
52. Jumanji by Chris Van Allsburg (4-8 years)
53. Math Curse by Jon Scieszka (4-8 years)
54. Matilda by Roald Dahl (9-12 years)
55. Summer of the Monkeys by Wilson Rawls (Young Adult)
56. Tales of a Fourth Grade Nothing by Judy Blume (9-12 years)
57. Ramona Quimby, Age 8 by Beverly Cleary (9-12 years)
58. The Trumpet of the Swan by E. B. White (9-12 years)
59. Are You My Mother? by Philip D. Eastman (4-8 years)
60. The Chronicles of Narnia by C. S. Lewis (9-12 years)
61. Make Way for Ducklings by Robert McCloskey (4-8 years)
62. One Fish Two Fish Red Fish Blue Fish by Dr. Seuss (4-8 years)
63. The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton Juster (9-12 years)
64. The Snowy Day by Ezra Jack Keats (Baby-Preschool)
65. The Napping House by Audrey Wood (4-8 years)
66. Sylvester and the Magic Pebble by William Steig (4-8 years)
67. The Tale of Peter Rabbit by Beatrix Potter (4-8 years)
68. Tuck Everlasting by Natalie Babbitt (9-12 years)
69. The Wizard of Oz by L. Frank Baum (All ages)
70. Anne of Green Gables by Lucy Maud Montgomery (9-12 years)
71. Horton Hatches the Egg by Dr. Seuss (4-8 years)
72. Basil of Baker Street, by Eve Titus (4-8 years)
73. The Little Engine That Could by Watty Piper (4-8 years)
74. The Cay by Theodore Taylor (Young Adult)
75. Curious George by Hans Augusto Rey (4-8 years)
76. Wilfred Gordon McDonald Partridge by Mem Fox (4-8 years)
77. Arthur series by Marc Tolon Brown (4-8 years)
78. The Great Gilly Hopkins by Katherine Paterson (9-12 years)
79. Lilly's Purple Plastic Purse by Kevin Henkes (4-8 years)
80. Little House books by Laura Ingalls Wilder (9-12 years)
81. The Little House by Virginia Lee Burton (4-8 years)
82. The Runaway Bunny by Margaret Wise Brown (Baby-Preschool)
83. Sideways Stories from Wayside School by Louis Sachar (9-12 years)
84. Amelia Bedelia by Peggy Parish (4-8 years)
85. Harriet the Spy by Louise Fitzhugh (9-12 years)
86. A Light in the Attic by Shel Silverstein (9-12 years)
87. Mr. Popper's Penguins by Richard Atwater (9-12 years)
88. My Father's Dragon by Ruth Stiles Gannett (9-12 years)
89. Stuart Little by E. B. White (9-12 years)
90. Walk Two Moons by Sharon Creech (9-12 years)
91. The Witch of Blackbird Pond by Elizabeth George Speare (9-12 years)
92. The Art Lesson by Tomie De Paola (4-8 years)
93. Caps for Sale by Esphyr Slobodkina (4-8 years)
94. Clifford, the Big Red Dog by Norman Bridwell (4-8 years)
95. Heidi by Johanna Spyri (All ages)
96. Horton Hears a Who by Dr. Seuss (4-8 years)
97. The Sign of the Beaver by Elizabeth George Speare (Young Adult)
98. The Watsons Go to Birmingham-1963 by Christopher Paul Curtis (9-12 years)
99. Guess How Much I Love You by Sam McBratney (Baby-Preschool)
100. The Paper Bag Princess by Robert N. Munsch (4-8 years)

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1. Harry Potter (series) by J. K. Rowling
2. Goosebumps (series) by R. L. Stine
3. Green Eggs and Ham by Dr. Seuss
4. The Cat in the Hat by Dr. Seuss
5. Arthur (series) by Marc Brown
6. Charlotte's Web by E. B. White
7. Shiloh (trilogy) by Phyllis Reynolds Naylor
8. Hatchet by Gary Paulsen
9. Holes by Louis Sachar
10. The Giver by Lois Lowry
11. The Chronicles of Narnia by C. S. Lewis
12. Tales of a Fourth Grade Nothing (series) by Judy Blume
13. Sideways Stories from Wayside School (series) by Louis Sachar
14. The BFG by Roald Dahl
15. The Boxcar Children (series) by Gertrude Chandler Warner
16. One Fish Two Fish Red Fish Blue Fish by Dr. Seuss
17. Ramona Quimby, Age 8 (series) by Beverly Cleary
18. Pokemon (series) by Tracey West, Maria S. Barbo
19. The Babysitters Club (series) by Ann M. Martin
20. Ralph S. Mouse (series) by Beverly Cleary
21. Little House on the Prairie (series) by Laura Ingalls Wilder
22. Where the Sidewalk Ends by Shel Silverstein
23. Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl
24. The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein
25. Clifford the Big Red Dog (series) by Norman Bridwell
26. Stuart Little by E. B. White
27. Where the Red Fern Grows by Wilson Rawls
28. The Adventures of Captain Underpants (series) by Dav Pilkey
29. The Polar Express by Chris Van Allsburg
30. The Berenstain Bears (series) by Jan and Stan Berenstain
31. Animorphs (series) by K. A. Applegate
32. The Witches by Roald Dahl
33. Nancy Drew Mystery Stories by Carolyn Keene
34. The Hobbit (series) by J. R. R. Tolkien
35. American Girls (series) by Susan Adler, Valerie Tripp, Connie Porter, Janet Shaw, et al
36. Matilda by Roald Dahl
37. The Call of the Wild by Jack London
38. The Foot Book by Dr. Seuss
39. How the Grinch Stole Christmas by Dr. Seuss
40. James and the Giant Peach by Roald Dahl
41. Junie B. Jones (series) by Barbara Park
42. Stone Fox by John Reynolds Gardiner
43. Falling Up by Shel Silverstein
44. A Wrinkle in Time (series) by Madeleine L'Engle
45. Brian's Winter by Gary Paulsen
46. Amber Brown (series) by Paula Danziger
47. The North Star by Peter H. Reynolds
48. Have a Nice Day: A Tale of Blood and Sweatsocks by Mick Foley (Mankind)
49. Number the Stars by Lois Lowry
50. The Outsiders by S. E. Hinton
51. A Light in the Attic by Shel Silverstein
52. Chicken Soup for the Soul (series) by various authors
53. Curious George (series) by Margret and Hans Augusto Rey
54. The Teacher from the Black Lagoon (series) by Mike Thaler
55. If You Give a Mouse a Cookie by Laura Joffe Numeroff
56. The Bailey School Kids (series) by Debbie Dadey, et al
57. The Hardy Boys (series) by Franklin W. Dixon
58. The Mitten by Jan Brett
59. Amelia Bedelia (series) by Peggy Parish
60. Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of NIMH by Robert C. O'Brien
61. Island of the Blue Dolphins by Scott O'Dell
62. Little Women by Louisa May Alcott
63. Mr. Popper's Penguins by Richard Atwater
64. The River by Gary Paulsen
65. Magic Tree House (series) by Mary Pope Osborne
66. The True Story of the Three Little Pigs by John Scieszka
67. Bridge to Terabithia by Katherine Paterson
68. Hop on Pop by Dr. Seuss
69. The Complete Tales of Winnie the Pooh by A. A. Milne
70. Tuck Everlasting by Natalie Babbitt
71. Redwall by Brian Jacques
72. The Best Christmas Pageant Ever by Barbara Robinson
73. Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak
74. Wringer by Jerry Spinelli
75. Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret by Judy Blume
76. Dear Mr. Henshaw by Beverly Cleary
77. Summer of the Monkeys by Wilson Rawls
78. Sweet Valley High (series) by Francine Pascal
79. The Adventures of Mary-Kate and Ashley (series) by Judy Katschke, Cathy Dobowski, Lisa Eisenberg, Nancy E. Krulik, Nina Alexander, Frances Lin Lantz, et al
80. Garfield (series) by Jim Davis
81. Magic School Bus (series) by Joanna Cole
82. Math Curse by John Scieszka
83. White Fang by Jack London
84. I Spy (series) by Walter Wick, Jean Marzollo, Diana Noonan, et al
85. Love You Forever by Robert N. Munsch
86. My Side of the Mountain by Jean Craighead George
87. The Trumpet of the Swan by E. B. White
88. Walk Two Moons by Sharon Creech
89. Draw 50 Airplanes, Aircraft and Spacecraft (series) by Lee J. Ames
90. Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown
91. The Adventures of Tom Sawyer by Mark Twain
92. The Rock Says by Dwayne Johnson (The Rock)
93. Tikki Tikki Tembo by Arlene Mosel
94. To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
95. All About Sam by Lois Lowry
96. Black Beauty by Anna Sewell
97. Ella Enchanted by Gail Carson Levine
98. Hank the Cow Dog (series) by John R. Erickson
99. Piggie Pie by Margie Palatini
100. Sarah, Plain and Tall by Patricia MacLachlan

WINGOO

第五遍完成 +1-7；

今天速度还可以，明显进步了；很欣慰；
这几天没那么忙了，我带的多；

之前复习那几天，我很忙；
爸爸带的多，
我带的时候觉得和分篇的成果差的蛮远，
一下极不适应；
家事困扰多多，又很难专心；

这几天连着带了2天，熟悉齐的难易了；
对他的速度也又熟悉了；

早上17-20；中午8-10；完成了第五遍；
下午1-4；感觉进度满意，晚饭后就直接带到大堂去玩；
小朋友很多

齐这半年成长很明显；
原来比他高很多的，现在差距没那么大了；
原本比他拍球拍的好很多的，现在不如他了；
原本同龄的，因为齐语迟无法沟通，现在可以自己去沟通了；
。。。。。。

这还不算一本论语下肚了；
这么想想，真是个乖宝。