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 楼主| 发表于 2009-10-17 19:25:15 | 只看该作者
今天还搭了一个这个,觉得小同学空间观念还不错:)

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青春已过 + 10 + 10 我好喜欢。。。
结绳记忆之然然 + 2 + 2 :)悠也偶尔搭磁力棒
blaze + 2 + 2 这个磁力棒 我家也有,但是这样复杂的 ...

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发表于 2009-10-18 10:53:09 | 只看该作者
哇卡,小宝太有才了!

请教一下,三国的拼图是从哪儿买的?真不错!

想给桐买一套,他肯定喜欢滴

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 楼主| 发表于 2009-10-18 11:01:12 | 只看该作者

回复 #1192 SHUTONG 的帖子

那个中文是不是应该叫变形金刚??专卖变形金刚的店里买的,这个强烈推荐一下,很培养孩子的动手能力和耐心,买来是装在盒子里,所有零部件都有标号,镶嵌在一块塑料板上,有图纸指示你应该怎么做,最后塑料板上的零件都会取下来,就搭好啦.

不知道解释清楚了没有?

脸红,我自己对这些没耐心,不感兴趣就静不下心去玩这些玩具,孩子都很喜欢.

三国那个,有桃园三结义一套,刘关张三个人物,我记得好象是新币30多,比较换算.其他的都是单买...

你可以去这类店看看!

[ 本帖最后由 盛夏919 于 2009-10-18 11:12 编辑 ]

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SHUTONG + 2 + 2 谢谢回复,我找一下看看!

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发表于 2009-10-18 23:13:23 | 只看该作者
http://image.baidu.com/i?ct=5033 ... ;ln=841&fr=ala0

我家西西从6岁开始玩 启蒙拼装玩具,非常能培养孩子动手能力,观察能力

很复杂的图和玩具 很快就可以完成了

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盛夏919 + 2 + 2 谢谢推荐,很不错呢:)

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 楼主| 发表于 2009-10-19 21:22:52 | 只看该作者

秋天里滴一把火~

秋天里滴一把火~


1.马麻形容一个人比较木讷,说,这个人呆头呆脑。

小宝同学摇晃着光脑袋说:“你就直接说他呆头鹅好了嘛。”

马麻惊讶不已,大笑着问:“宝贝,呆头鹅这个词你也知道啊?”

小人扒一大口饭,无比自豪地回答:“马麻,我还是知道一些词语滴。”

吼吼,你牛:)



2.马麻又开始给小折腾MM当心理治疗师。
  
马麻愉快地在电话里循循善诱,“心襟开阔些就更容易快乐,眼界放大,心界放宽,你试试真诚地打开你的心。。。。。。。”

一旁,小同学恨嘟嘟地插话:“我的天哪!你怎么叫人家把心打开,那不就没命了吗?”

小折腾MM 大概在电话那头笑弯了腰。

马麻我噗哧笑出了声。

好吧,心还是不要随便打开滴好。

小同学小脸红扑扑地大笑着跑开了。



3.马麻的马麻问起马麻最近的工作情况,马麻相当文艺青年地回答:很忙,忙得兵荒马乱滴。

小同学相当鄙夷不屑滴说,“乱讲,都没有打仗!用词不当!”

马麻恍然自惭。

嗯,和平年代是不能用兵慌马乱滴。

马麻冲小同学做个鬼脸,叹气:“我容易嘛我。“

小同学无比同情地瞅着马麻,无限感慨:“你真不容易,辛辛苦苦养了我七年,还要继续辛辛苦苦养我好多年哦,我要感谢你,马麻!”


对于小同学这一番感恩滴肺腑之言,马麻激动得几乎难以把持自己,嘿嘿~~



4.交心时刻。

马麻累得不想说话了,奄奄一息滴躺在床上。

石头、剪刀、布,决定谁今天先说。

马麻赢了,小宝先说。

在马麻快要昏睡过去的最后一秒,小同学满是口水滴小嘴巴贴近马麻的脸,甜蜜滴说:“马麻,做你的仔仔好有福气哦。”

奇迹般滴,所有的精气神都回来了,马麻瞬间充满了无限能量。

呵呵,做你的马麻也好有福气哦。

秋夜有几分凉意了,敲完这些字,心里暖暖的,这些小片段,好象秋天里滴一把火,照亮了马麻的心。

嗯,亲爱的,你幸福着,我也一样。


19/10/2009

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SHUTONG + 2 + 2 真好哇!
青春已过 + 10 + 10 交心时刻
ya0903 + 2 + 2 好会哄人的仔仔哦,可爱极了。
结绳记忆之然然 + 2 + 2 奖励

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1196#
发表于 2009-10-20 08:22:13 | 只看该作者
仲秋慢慢转成深秋

换季的时节,心情无端低落

好在,宝贝总在左右.看宝贝的笑脸,心里总会有轻松的时刻

我们都有好宝贝!

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 楼主| 发表于 2009-10-20 12:49:08 | 只看该作者
推荐一本书:


Talent is Overrated-天分被夸大了(ZT)by Jim Citrin
Posted on Friday, November 21, 2008, 12:00AM


If you listened to the mellifluous President-Elect Obama deliver his acceptance speech at Grant Park on November 4th, you wouldn't be alone in thinking that his oratorical gift was naturally endowed. So too with Tiger Woods, who famously has been honing his apparently innate gift for golf since he outputted Bob Hope on the Mike Douglas Show at age two. Similarly, in describing his investment prowess Warren Buffett has oft been quoted as saying that he "was born to allocate capital."

  如果你听了当选总统奥巴马在11月4日Grant Park发表他的接职演讲,你不会是唯一一个人认为他的演说才华是天生的。老虎伍兹也是如此,自从2岁时在Mike Douglas节目上赢BObHope(某位喜剧演员)之后,伍兹一直就在磨练自己那个似乎是打高尔夫方面的天赋。相似地,在谈论巴菲特投资高超的本领时,人们往往被认为他“天生就懂得如何分配资本”

We all believe that the world's best performers are different than us. And that perhaps unfortunately is true. However, you might be surprised at exactly how they are different and what truly accounts for their success. Conventional wisdom would explain that the super-human performers came into the world with a gift for doing exactly what they ended up doing and that they had the good fortune to discover their gift early in life. But as Geoff Colvin, Senior Editor at Large with Fortune Magazine puts forth in his ground-breaking new book, Talent is Overrated, it turns out that "great performance is in our hands far more than most of us ever suspected."

  我们都相信世界上最卓越的人和我们都不一样。不幸地是,也许的确如此。不过,到底他们不同在什么地方,以及什么让他们最终成功,答案也许会让你惊讶。根据一般的观点,那些"超凡“的人们生下来便有了一种将来要去从事的活动恰好完全一样的天赋;他们也有幸能在自己的人生早期发现这天赋。但是,根据《财富》杂志高级撰稿编辑 Geoff Colvin在具有一本具有突破性的新书《天分被夸大了》一书中,原来”人们对卓越表现的掌控能力大大超过他们所以为的“
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-10-20 12:49:52 | 只看该作者
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Summary of the Book's Key Points:
此书的关键点总结:


Contrary to popular belief, what makes certain people great is not inborn talent. Rather, it is something called "deliberate practice," a sustained, often life-long, period of purposeful effort designed to improve performance in a specific domain. This turns out to be just as true in business as it is in sports, music, medicine, chess, science, and mathematics.

  与大众观念相违背的是,造就了某些人的不是天分。而是一种”有意(的)练习“--即:用持续(往往是终身)的时期、有目的地努力提高具体某个领域表现水平。不论在商界、体育、音乐、医学、象棋、科学和数学中都是一样的。

Deliberate practice is characterized by several elements: It is an activity designed specifically to improve performance, often with a teacher's help; it can be repeated a lot; feedback on results is continuously available; and it's highly demanding mentally. It is far different than the general notion of "practice makes perfect." Instead of repeating a task over and over again in your comfort zone, deliberate practice requires that you identify certain sharply defined elements of performance that need to be advanced and then work intently on them.

  有意练习由几个特点构成:它是指一种专门设计为提高表现的活动 -- 往往同时在老师的帮助下进行;它是可以被大量反复;不断能从结果中获得反馈;而且对脑力要求非常苛刻。和一般“熟能生巧”的观点相比大相径庭。有意的练习不是去反复一次次在“舒适区”内重复某项任务,而是要求人们找到表现需要提高、定义清晰的因素,然后转型去锻炼它们。

Once a highly specific capability is improved, whether it's mastering a passage from a demanding music composition, delivering an investment recommendation in a staff meeting, or answering a key question in a job interview, then it's on to the next step. Top performers get the help of coaches or mentors to select and design the best practice activity, repeat them to a stultifying degree, adjust their techniques based on objective feedback, and concentrate so intensely on their efforts that it strains their mental abilities.

  一旦具有高度明确性的某能力被提高(不论是掌握了要就苛刻的音乐作品中一个段落,在工作人员会议上发表投资推荐演说,或者是面试中回答一个关键性问题),那么就进行到下一步。 最优秀的人们从教练或导师那里获得帮助。这些人为他们挑选和设计最好的锻炼活动。然后,他们去重复这些活动直至到达一个无聊透顶的程度,之后,根据客观的反馈做出技巧调整。由于努力中要注意力高度地集中,结果这会"拉伸"他们的脑力。

If you are motivated to achieve, the fact that deliberate practice is extremely difficult is actually good news. Why? Most people don't do it or stick with it, so your commitment to do so will distinguish you. What makes deliberate practice so powerful is that it pushes you beyond what you can currently do and enables you perceive more, to know more, and to remember more than most other people.

  如果你有成功的动力,那么有一个好消息: 有意练习极度困难。为什么呢?因为大多数人都不会去那么做、或者不会去坚持。所以你那么去做就将让你脱颖而出。之所以使得有意练习的方法有效是因为它能使你突破现今能够做到的,能让你能比大多数人感知到地更多、了解到地更多、记住地更多。

Excellent performers perceive more by developing better and faster understanding of what they see. This is evidenced by the best typists seeing more words on a page than others and expert radiologists detecting subtle but life-threatening issues from x-ray readings that elude medical residents. Highly trained pilots are twice as good as new pilots at sorting through the cacophony of air traffic control; and in business and finance, the best performers understand the significance of particular information and data that average performers don't even notice.

  顶尖人士是通过培养出更好、更快理解所见到的事物的能力来获得更多的感知。可以证明的例子有:最好的打字员比其它人能记下一页纸上更多的单词;专家级放射科室人员能发现逃脱一般医生检查的x射线结果中微小却有生命威胁的问题;训练有素的飞行员在嘈杂的空中交通管制中的理清能力强于新飞行员一倍;在企业和金融界,顶尖人士会理解那些表现平平的人们甚至都不会注意到的某些信息和数据中的重要意义。

Great performers in every realm also recall more. Jack Nicklaus could reportedly remember every shot he had hit in every tournament. The best direct marketers remember the results of every campaign and which specific variables caused the largest movements in response rates.

  每个领域中,达到最优秀的人们的记忆要更好。Jack Nicklaus(高尔夫球手)据说能回忆起每一次巡回赛中自己的每一杆球。最优秀的直销人员记得每一次活动中的结果,有哪些具体变化因素带来了回复率最大变更。

At the extreme, the effects of deliberate practice actually change the body and the brain. Endurance runners for example have larger than average hearts. But they weren't born that way; their hearts grew only after years of training. When they stop training their hearts revert toward normal size. When kids start practicing a musical instrument, their brains develop differently. Brain regions that hear tones and control fingers garner more territory. London taxi drivers, who train rigorously for two years on average, have been found to have larger areas of the brain where spatial navigation is governed. It is significant that the process by which the brain changes is very slow and requires many years of intensive work. Activities need to be replicated thousands and in some cases millions of times for the "rewiring" of the brain to take effect.

  在极度情况下,有意练习的效果会真正改变你的身体和大脑。例如:长跑选手的心脏比一般人要大,但并不是天生如此;是通过多年练习才让他们的心脏发生了成长。当他们停止练习后,他们的心脏就会朝着正常的大小变化。当儿童开始练习乐器时,他们的大脑发育就和别人不一样。听声音、控制手指运动的大脑区域占据更多的“领土”。人们已经发现平均来说经过了两年高强度培训的伦敦出租车司机的支配空间导航的大脑区域较大。重要的一点是让大脑改变的是一个缓慢进行的、需要多年的密集活动的过程。它们需要成百上千次地被重复;有些时候要让大脑”发生构造变化“出现需要百万次地重复。

The fact is that great performers are different from everybody else. But the key points to recognize are, one that they didn't start out that way, and two, that the transformations didn't happen by themselves.

的确,卓越人士和别人是不一样。但是,关键在于认识到:首先,他们并不是生来如此。其次,由平凡到卓越转变不是自动发生。
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-10-20 12:50:19 | 只看该作者
Colvin Speaks
访谈Colvin


In my interview with Colvin, he said "The heart of the matter is that this is demanding stuff. To excel, you have to pursue these activities at length and with intensity." He added that it's difficult to sustain the effort in something if you're continually doing a cost-benefit analysis. "You need to look deeply into yourself and select something you will find rewarding for its own sake to which to devote yourself." Of course, it's relatively straightforward to do this if you have a deep passion for an activity; but how do you discover it when it's not obvious? "You may not have the passion a priori," Colvin said, "but as you pursue an endeavor with focus it will often develop."

  在我对Colvin的采访中,他说:”问题的关键是成功的代价很大。要出类拔萃,你就要长久,还要高强度地去从事那些活动“ 他还补充道如果你不断在做”成本效益“分析,那么就很难去维持努力进行这样活动”  你需要深省自己去选择一项本身而言就令你感到有回报的活动去投入“ 当然,如果对某项活动你有很大激情,去做的化相对来说就是顺水推舟;但是如果不那么明显,又怎样去发现呢?” "也许你开始没有激情,但是随着你执着地去追求,那么经常会培养出来“

I asked Colvin how he is personally applying the principles from the book. In his work, which involves writing and speaking, Colvin is thinking much more specifically about the core elements of great performance and how each can be improved. For example, he cites the use of story in his articles. "It's much more effective to show rather than to tell the reader something important. I now review my writing and ask myself, ‘Am I telling or showing? How can I show more?'" He is also seeking feedback of editors and mentors much more than he has in the past. He advises you to find someone in your organization that you respect and know well enough to solicit genuine feedback and then focus on improving that which is most important.

  我问Colvin他如何将自己书中的原理运用起来。工作中,Colvin如今比以往大大具体化地思考地对优秀表现中的核心元素、以及每一个元素要如何被提高。例如:在提到文章中引用故事时,”展示给读者什么重要远比去告诉有效地多。我就正在重审自己的文章,会问自己’我在告诉别人还是在展示给别人?要怎样才能更多地展示?‘”他比过去从编辑、导师那里会寻求更多的反馈。他建议你在你的企业找一个你所尊重、了解的人去得到真诚的反馈,然后关注于提高最重要的那个方面。

Outside of work Colvin is applying his learning in an entirely different way - moving away from great performance. "I've changed my outlook when I play golf," he said. "I now understand the reality of where excellence comes from and know that I will never be world-class (he's a single-digit handicap). I can stop deluding myself which is actually quite liberating and have much more fun out there."

  工作之外,Colvin把自己截然相反地应用自己所学--远离”卓越“。 他说:“现在当我打高尔夫时,我已经改变了期待。现在,我知道完美到底是从何而来,知道自己永远都不达不到世界一流(他是一位差点为个位数的球手)。我对自己不再幻想。事实上,这是一个很大的解脱,让打球时的乐趣大大提高了”

The implications of Talent is Overrated are important and actionable. For your career, the principles are essential because the standards of performance in business will continue to rise relentlessly driven by the power of information technology and the fact that you may well be competing in (and for!) your job with other workers around the world. Beyond your career, however, the book is incredibly exciting if your life is your work. It will show you how to maximize what you've got and what you can accomplish. There are also profound insights about how parents can create a home environment that encourages children to excel and about how great performance can be achieved and sustained late into life.

  《天分被夸大了》带来了重要的、可让人采取行动的影响。对于你的职业而言,这些原则是必不可少的。因为在公司的工作表现标准正在因为信息技术,及全球同行人事竞争的驱使而不断提升。在工作之外,如果你的生活就是你的工作,那么本书会让人无比感到兴奋。它将向你展示如何最大化已获得的、能取得什么样的成就。书中还有对教父母们如何制造出一个鼓励孩子取得卓越的家庭环境;以及要如何取得才能有很好表现,并将它维持到晚年的深度见解。

Colvin brings to life deliberate practice with a wide array of examples. He takes the reader deeply behind the common knowledge of how Tiger Woods, Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart, Bobby Fischer and other "child prodigies" really became great. We see the true genius behind other renowned performers, such as Chris Rock as a stand-up comedian, Jerry Rice as the best receiver in NFL history, and Benjamin Franklin as an essayist. Colvin also convincingly draws on in-depth research on large groups of violinists, mathematicians, and other groups of anonymous high achievers. In fact, much of Colvin's research underpinning is drawn from the leading expert on great performance, Dr. K. Anders Ericsson, a professor at Florida State University, whose work over the past thirty years has set the standard in the field.

  以一系列广泛的例子,Colvin将有意练习刻画地栩栩如生。作者把读者带到对伍兹、莫扎特、(前国际象棋冠军)鲍比菲舍尔等“少年天才”如何变得伟大的平常看法的背后。读者们还会看到知名人士,如:单口喜剧演员Chris Rock,全国橄榄球联盟历史上最优秀的传球说Jerry Rice、身为散文家的本杰明富兰克林他们真正的“天分”之处。Colvin令人信服地引取对大量小提琴家组织、数学家组织等其它组织团体进行过的深入研究。事实上,Colvin的大部分研究方面取自在优秀表现领域领先专家,过去30年在这领域制定了标准的,来自佛罗里达州立大学的教授K. Anders Ericsson博士。

If you are motivated to devote yourself to becoming a great performer at work or in an avocation, Talent is Overrated will show you how to focus on an area and develop and pursue a disciplined regimen of deliberate practice. Doing this over the long term will lead you further than you may have ever hoped or dreamed.

  如果你有心让自己在工作中或某一职业成为卓越人士,本书将告诉你如何关注一个领域,建立、采用一套纪律化的有意练习体系。长期、反复地有意练习将会让你达到一个超出先前所期望和梦想的高度。
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Talent is Overrated-天分被夸大了


前言
      你的外婆也许会告诉你,如果成为泰格•伍兹、温斯顿•丘吉尔、沃伦•巴菲特、杰克•韦尔奇、莫扎特这样的人,就必须埋头苦干。但事实并不仅如此,你还必须坚持不懈地“刻意练习”,你必须学会如何对结果进行分析,如何从失败中吸取教训,只要按照科学的方法进行“练习”,每个人都有可能获得成功,而不是仅仅取决于你的智商或者是情商。

第一章 谜

      为什么呢,为什么他们做不到呢?为什么他们不能像杰克•韦尔奇或安迪•格罗夫那样管理企业,或者像泰格•伍兹一样打高尔夫,或者像伊扎克•帕尔曼一样拉小提琴呢?毕竟,他们大多数都是不错的、善良的人,他们工作勤奋。有些人已经工作很长时间了,二十年、三十年甚至四十年,为什么他们没有因此而成为更优秀的人?更残酷的现实是,他们中几乎没有一个人能够达成、或者接近达成伟大的成就,只有很少的几个才达到。

      这是一个谜,这个谜如此普遍,以致我们几乎没有留意它。

第二章 刻意练习是什么,不是什么?

      虽然我们已经清楚知道,大量的刻意练习会塑造优秀的外科医生、台球手或演说家,但我们还是很自然想知道,是否能用某些通用的方式来理解。刻意练习除了能使一个人在其从事的特定任务中表现更好外,是否还能在其他领域中得到应用?答案是肯定的,这值得我们确认,因为它和许多人的想法相反。

第三章 在生活中运用这些原则

      早些时候,我们看到,大多数的企业对这些刻意练习的原则是多么敌意。更让人疑惑的是,许多商业以外的机构却都在采用这个方法。我们对那些冠军体育代表团、管弦乐队、剧团等组织深表敬意,但当我们回到办公室之后,却不觉得我们可以从这些取得辉煌成就的人身上学到一些东西。美国军方通过学习和采纳这些原则使他们变得非常高效,而且他们也赞助和支持了这个领域的一些最重要的研究。但在绝大多数商业机构、教育机构和非盈利组织中,伟大成就的最基本原则却没有被足够认识到或者被忽略。

1978年,作者来到宝洁,见到了一对工作在狭小房间的22岁年轻人,当时人们都说“这两人将来一定能够取得成功”。果然不出所料,这两个年轻人后来成为了通用电气和微软的首席执行官,他们就是杰夫?伊梅尔特和史蒂夫?鲍尔曼。

是什么让当时的人们就认为他们具有取得成功的潜质?这并不取决于他们的天赋,也不取决于他们的基因,而是取决于他们坚持不懈地“刻意练习”,这是本书要告诉读者的最大的一个秘密。

《财富》杂志曾刊登过一篇非常受读者欢迎的封面报道,名为《如何成就伟大》。《财富》杂志的高级编辑杰夫?科尔文在读者的期盼下,将这篇经典的封面文章写成了这本书,旨在为读者揭开成功的奥秘。

你的外婆也许会告诉你,如果要成为泰格•伍兹、温斯顿•丘吉尔、沃伦•巴菲特、杰克•韦尔奇、莫扎特这样的人,就必须埋头苦干。但事实并不仅如此,你还必须坚持不懈地“刻意练习”,你必须学会如何对结果进行分析,如何从失败中吸取教训,只要按照科学的方法进行“练习”,每个人都有可能获得成功,而不是仅仅取决于你的智商或者是情商。

科尔文提出的“刻意练习”的成功法则不仅适用于科学、音乐、艺术领域,就是谈判、理财等技能,也可以依照成功法则来习得。

亮点:

1、本书切中时弊,特别是在目前社会对造星的狂躁心理、初入职场者浮躁的心态和职场老手郁郁不得志的心情下,推出这本书正符合时代心理需求;

2、能帮助企业走出人力培养的误区,鼓励企业去发现员工身上的优点,使得企业团队的运作更为有效。

3、帮助为父母者、教育工作者走出功利性误区,多方面考察孩子的能力,找到最适合孩子发育的方向。

4、作者不仅在《财富》杂志的著名记者,中国国内媒体也对他非常熟悉,先后有新浪、和讯、雅虎、中国新闻网、价值中国网、中金在线、文化中国网转载他的相关文章。

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