喜欢这首诗吗？反思一下。。。。。

瑜珈

Do you know what the word FAMILY means?


I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
“Oh excuse me please” was my reply.

He said, “Please excuse me too;
I wasn’t watching for you.”

We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said goodbye.

But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.

Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My son stood beside me very still.

When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
“Move out of the way,” I said with a frown.

He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn’t realize how harshly I’d spoken.

While I lay awake in bed,
God’s still small voice came to me and said,

“While dealing with a stranger,
common courtesy you use,
but the family you love, you seem to abuse.

Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You’ll find some flowers there by the door.

Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.

He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes.”

By this time, I felt very small,

And now my tears began to fall.
I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
“Wake up, little one, wake up,” I said.

“Are these the flowers you picked for me?”
He smiled, “I found ‘em, out by the tree.

I picked ‘em because they’re pretty like you.
I knew you’d like ‘em, especially the blue.”

I said, “Son, I’m very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn’t have yelled at you that way.”

He said, “Oh, Mom, that’s okay.
I love you anyway.”

I said, “Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue.”

FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU

[ 本帖最后由 瑜珈 于 2012-6-12 23:03 编辑 ]

无事生非

是啊，我们和孩子一起成长。我们成长得慢一点，但也有成长呢。

你带来的幸福

很喜欢！
对于路人我们会很有礼貌，对于身边的亲人孩子，我们有时候却会用粗暴的言语来对待吗，以为最亲的人总会理解我们的心

孩子的爱总是最纯真最真挚的，对父母总是无保留的

menghuan

FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU

喜欢！

瑜珈

不管在什么样的情况下，女儿睡前总是会跟爸爸妈妈亲一下脸颊道晚安，哪怕是刚刚有过不愉快，孩子对父母的爱发自内心，就象诗中孩子对妈妈所说：I love you anyway

感谢孩子对我们的改造。

无事生非

这两天老被形容为“灯下黑”，看来我也有这种倾向啊。

那天宝宝又被爸爸踢了一脚，爸爸自己也反思，完全是他自己的错，跟宝宝没有什么关系的
虽然他道歉了，但我还是为孩子感到难过。

我们这一代，知道自己的问题，但是立竿见影的改，却太难太难。
但我很高兴的是，孩子的脾气很好，即便因为什么不高兴，也不会轻易的发火，而是用较好的方式来表达情绪。
他能冷静，当然看问题就会比容易急躁的爸爸妈妈更全面啦。
一代比一代强，我还是相信的。
所以宝宝将来一定会比我们更幸福