【原创】妈妈，我也要有自己的秘密

谷雨11

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 22pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">据调查，大约有一半以上的家长会<span class="postbody1"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-ansi-font-size: 9.0pt">窥视孩子的隐私，他们在孩子不知情或在没有</span></span>经过孩子许可的情况下，私自翻看孩子的抽屉、书包、口袋、日记、信件等，那么，孩子们对家长的这些做法有什么样的感想呢？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 25.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ">孩子</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">A</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ">：</span> <span lang="ZH" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ; mso-fareast-language: ZH">每个人心中都有不愿</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ">意</span><span lang="ZH" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ; mso-fareast-language: ZH">告诉他人的秘密</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ">，你们大人不也是这样吗？为什么你们可以有秘密，而我却不可以，这世道真不公平啊！</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">在家里，我是有一个上锁的抽屉，可妈妈却私下里自己也配了一把钥匙，好像我不知道似的，她这样做我很反感，跟她没有什么好说的，放学一回家我就把自己反锁在房间里，做什么偏偏不让她知道。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 25.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">孩子</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">B</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">：</span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">其实我的日记里并没有什么见不得人的内容，只不过是一些平时生活的感受，可是爸爸妈妈总认为那里面有天大的秘密，只要一有机会，他们就会偷看，我觉得这严重侵占了我的私人生活空间，是对我的</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">不尊重，我曾经试着在日记本的第一页写到：偷看别人的日记是不道德的行为！！！可这一招根本不起作用，没办法，我现在只好不写了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 25.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">孩子</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">C</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">：</span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果说孩子没有隐私，那就大错特错了！可是在家长眼中，我们永远是长不大的孩子，更不能有自己的隐私，我妈妈的口头禅就是：你的一切都是我给的，我天天辛辛苦苦地照顾你，供你吃供你喝，难道你肚子里有几条毛毛虫不该让我知道吗？其实，有些时候我也能理解妈妈的良苦用心，但是她经常侵犯我的隐私让我很讨厌，我觉得妈妈最好的关心就是相信我，尊重我，理解我。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 25.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">孩子</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">D</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">：</span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">爸爸妈妈对我们的看管太严了，书包、口袋、</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">日记、信件、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt">QQ</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">留言、手机短信、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt">EMAIL</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">信箱等样样都不放过，</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt

乐乐的妈

这样不好，我是孩子的时候就不喜欢这样，不好我妈要我坚持写日记，但从不看，因为她认为记日记其实是提高写作的一种很好的方法，她只希望我能提高我的写作水平，所以只要我坚持写就好，至于我写什么爸妈从来不看，我有试过，因为怕他们会看，不过试了几次均没有出现我所担心的，所以如果我儿子长大后写日记，他愿意给我看我就看，他不给我看，摆在我面前我也不去看。