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【转帖】孩子成长应注意的问题
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lfh111111
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2006-9-23 19:46
标题:
【转帖】孩子成长应注意的问题
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 96pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 8.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: " roman?;= new= ?times= times= mso-hansi-font-family:= mso-bidi-font-family:= 宋体;= mso-font-kerning:= 0pt?=>给孩子一个空间，让他自己往前走</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> <span lang="EN-US"></span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 96pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 8.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: " roman?;= new= ?times= times= mso-hansi-font-family:= mso-bidi-font-family:= 宋体;= mso-font-kerning:= 0pt?=>给孩子一个条件，让他自己去锻炼</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> <span lang="EN-US"></span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 96pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 8.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: " roman?;= new= ?times= times= mso-hansi-font-family:= mso-bidi-font-family:= 宋体;= mso-font-kerning:= 0pt?=>给孩子一个问题，让他自己找答案</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> <span lang="EN-US"></span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 96pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 8.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: " roman?;= new= ?times= times= mso-hansi-font-family:= mso-bidi-font-family:= 宋体;= mso-font-kerning:= 0pt?=>给孩子一点困难，让他自己去解决</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> <span lang="EN-US"></span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 96pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 8.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: " roman?;= new= ?times= times= mso-hansi-font-family:= mso-bidi-font-family:= 宋体;= mso-font-kerning:= 0pt?=>给孩子一点权利，让他自己去选择</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> <span lang="EN-US"></span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font face="Times New Roman"></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: " roman?;= new= ?times= times= mso-hansi-font-family:= mso-bidi-font-family:= 宋体;= mso-font-kerning:= 0pt?=>（一）给孩子一个空间，让他自己往前走</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> <span lang="EN-US"></span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: " roman?;= new= ?times= times= mso-hansi-font-family:= mso-bidi-font-family:= 宋体;= mso-font-kerning:= 0pt?=> 有两位父母，为了给孩子提供一个有特殊教育意义的空间，想出了一个叫做“小留学”的好主意，这个办法，既简单，又有效，孩子也非常欢迎。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: " roman?;= new= ?times= times= mso-hansi-font-family:= mso-bidi-font-family:= 宋体;= mso-font-kerning:= 0pt?=> 所谓“小留学”，就是两家的孩子，都到对方的家中去住一两个月，上学仍在原来的学校。</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: " roman?;= new= ?times= times= mso-hansi-font-family:= mso-bidi-font-family:= 宋体;= mso-font-kerning:= 0pt?=>别看这么一个空间的变化，对孩子的教育效果却十分突出。现在回忆起来至少有这样四个方面的好处：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: " roman?;= new= ?times= times= mso-hansi-font-family:= mso-bidi-font-family:= 宋体;= mso-font-kerning:= 0pt?=> 一是孩子得到了锻炼。孩子初次离家，虽然不是一个人生活，但毕竟周围都是外人，环境不熟悉，因此也可算作独立生活的初步锻炼。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: " roman?;= new= ?times= times= mso-hansi-font-family:= mso-bidi-font-family:= 宋体;= mso-font-kerning:= 0pt?=> 二是培养了自理能力。初到别人家，孩子比较重视对自我教育能力的培养。他们能自觉地严格要求自己，家务活抢着干，作息时间也安排得很紧，不会的事情努力学着做，这一段时间虽然不长，但进步得非常快。</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: " roman?;= new= ?times= times= mso-hansi-font-family:= mso-bidi-font-family:= 宋体;= mso-font-kerning:= 0pt?=> 三是提高了人际交往能力。“留学”到一个新的环境，面对着的都是陌生人，这正是提高人际交往能力的好机会。孩子们学习着如何对待家中的长辈，如何对待新的邻居，如何对待来访的客人，在新的家中听到长辈的教导，结合着原有的人际交往经验，感到对人际关系有了更深的理解。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: " roman?;= new= ?times= times= mso-hansi-font-family:= mso-bidi-font-family:= 宋体;= mso-font-kerning:= 0pt?=> 四是加深了对社会的认识。孩子先后在两个不同的家庭生活，如果能注意观察，进行思考，也算是一种比较研究。两个家庭，有不同的文化背景，每个成员有不同的性格、观念和生活习惯。分析着两个家庭的种种不同，可以起到从一个小窗口，加深对社会认识的作用。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> <
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