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标题: 【转帖】父母必读贴：手把手教你如何毁掉你自己的孩子！ [打印本页]

作者: petercdm 时间: 2006-8-17 08:21
标题: 【转帖】父母必读贴：手把手教你如何毁掉你自己的孩子！
<span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> 首先应该做的是摧毁孩子的自尊，将孩子贬到卑微的地位上。具体方法有这样几条：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: ""; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">　　<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: ""; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">1. <span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">让孩子觉得自己什么都不行，没人赏识他。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: ""; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">　　例如学习不行，长相不行，交际不行，干家务不行，马虎，粗心，让家人为他受累……总之，他没有行的地方。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: ""; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">　　<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: ""; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">2. <span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">经常拿比他“行”的人刺激他。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: ""; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">　　例如这种话要时常挂在嘴边：“看人家××，从不让父母操心！”这类话最具打击力和摧毁力，是摧毁孩子的王牌语录。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: ""; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">　　<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: ""; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">3. <span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">父母把自己塑造成为家庭牺牲者的形象，这样会使孩子产生罪恶感。而一个有罪恶感的人往往采用自暴自弃的方法度过一生。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: ""; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">　　具体方法举例如下：经常告诉孩子，自从有了他，你连电影也没看过，你为他操碎了心都累出病来了，最好再具体说出你身上的哪种病是由于他造成的。或者说，如果不是为了照顾他，自己早就在事业上有大发展了。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: ""; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">　　<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: ""; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">4. <span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">和孩子说话时口气决不

作者: petercdm 时间: 2006-8-17 08:22
自己先坐沙发

作者: wuhancxh 时间: 2006-8-27 00:59
我可能就是这样被毁的.

作者: tigerqiu 时间: 2006-9-14 09:40
想起了我表哥，唉。。。。

作者: qqxi 时间: 2006-10-30 23:00
还是需要赏识教育，不能光打击。

作者: snowfall2001 时间: 2006-11-21 23:04
多谢提醒，虽然有看过赏识教育的书，可现实有时就忘了，很多事情没做好．一定要好好反省一下了．

作者: hwzxzxq 时间: 2006-11-22 11:15
内容不全啊！！第4点不完整。

作者: susangel 时间: 2006-11-22 15:01
不注意时可能真会有上述情形，真该反省反省，谢谢提醒。

作者: vickyxiang 时间: 2006-12-4 19:34
受刺激!!!!!!!

作者: 赵建乔 时间: 2006-12-5 08:24
引以为戒，立此存照。

作者: 卡卡2007 时间: 2007-1-12 12:16
有时候一着急就忘了，时时看看，以提醒自己

作者: 6015186 时间: 2007-5-23 11:43
先要自律,多谢提醒!!!

作者: 妹妹猪 时间: 2007-5-24 01:21
发觉自己很多时候是一看就懂，一做就错！得牢记楼主的教导！谢谢了！

作者: hty4321 时间: 2007-5-28 22:22
确实真该反省反省，谢谢提醒。

作者: jialinmm 时间: 2007-5-29 14:48
多谢提醒！应该经常敲敲警钟。

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