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【原创】妈妈,我也要有自己的秘密
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作者:
谷雨11
时间:
2006-6-2 14:02
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【原创】妈妈,我也要有自己的秘密
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 22pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">据调查,大约有一半以上的家长会<span class="postbody1"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-ansi-font-size: 9.0pt">窥视孩子的隐私,他们在孩子不知情或在没有</span></span>经过孩子许可的情况下,私自翻看孩子的抽屉、书包、口袋、日记、信件等,那么,孩子们对家长的这些做法有什么样的感想呢?</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 25.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ">孩子</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">A</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ">:</span> <span lang="ZH" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ; mso-fareast-language: ZH">每个人心中都有不愿</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ">意</span><span lang="ZH" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ; mso-fareast-language: ZH">告诉他人的秘密</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ">,你们大人不也是这样吗?为什么你们可以有秘密,而我却不可以,这世道真不公平啊!</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">在家里,我是有一个上锁的抽屉,可妈妈却私下里自己也配了一把钥匙,好像我不知道似的,她这样做我很反感,跟她没有什么好说的,放学一回家我就把自己反锁在房间里,做什么偏偏不让她知道。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 25.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">孩子</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">B</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">:</span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">其实我的日记里并没有什么见不得人的内容,只不过是一些平时生活的感受,可是爸爸妈妈总认为那里面有天大的秘密,只要一有机会,他们就会偷看,我觉得这严重侵占了我的私人生活空间,是对我的</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">不尊重,我曾经试着在日记本的第一页写到:偷看别人的日记是不道德的行为!!!可这一招根本不起作用,没办法,我现在只好不写了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 25.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">孩子</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">C</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">:</span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果说孩子没有隐私,那就大错特错了!可是在家长眼中,我们永远是长不大的孩子,更不能有自己的隐私,我妈妈的口头禅就是:你的一切都是我给的,我天天辛辛苦苦地照顾你,供你吃供你喝,难道你肚子里有几条毛毛虫不该让我知道吗?其实,有些时候我也能理解妈妈的良苦用心,但是她经常侵犯我的隐私让我很讨厌,我觉得妈妈最好的关心就是相信我,尊重我,理解我。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 25.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">孩子</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">D</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">:</span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">爸爸妈妈对我们的看管太严了,书包、口袋、</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">日记、信件、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt">QQ</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">留言、手机短信、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt">EMAIL</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">信箱等样样都不放过,</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1pt
作者:
乐乐的妈
时间:
2006-6-2 14:23
这样不好,我是孩子的时候就不喜欢这样,不好我妈要我坚持写日记,但从不看,因为她认为记日记其实是提高写作的一种很好的方法,她只希望我能提高我的写作水平,所以只要我坚持写就好,至于我写什么爸妈从来不看,我有试过,因为怕他们会看,不过试了几次均没有出现我所担心的,所以如果我儿子长大后写日记,他愿意给我看我就看,他不给我看,摆在我面前我也不去看。
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