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标题: 【建议】家长应给予孩子的10个经历 [打印本页]

作者: 人生谜情 时间: 2006-5-24 19:49
标题: 【建议】家长应给予孩子的10个经历
<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><font color="#666666"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><font color="#666666">〓<font color="#cc0000"> <font color="#cc0066" size="5">1. </span><font color="#cc0066">幸福家庭的经历 <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><font color="#666666">〓<font color="#cc0000"> </span>　　<font color="#333333">家庭是孩子的依归，一旦家庭有所动摇，孩子情绪会变得不稳定、坐立不安、容易生气、甚至神经质。我们应该营造一个和谐温馨的家庭气氛，使孩子在充满爱和关怀的环境下成长，让孩子感受何谓幸福家庭，并了解父母的责任。<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" border="0"><tr><td align="center"><table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" border="0"><tr><td><img src="http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373511.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />[/url]</td></tr></table>[url=http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373511.jpg]</td></tr></table><font color="#666666">　　<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">〓 <font color="#cc0066" size="5">2.<font color="#cc0000"> </span><font color="#cc0066">独立处事的经历 <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">〓</span><font color="#666666">　　<font color="#333333">孩子初初尝试，难免遭遇困难，我们不应干预，更不可代他做，应让他从失败中学习。只在重要时刻才替他作决定，但当孩子坚持要自己解决，不妨善用其好胜心，给予适当的鼓励。<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" border="0"><tr><td align="center"><table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" border="0"><tr><td><img src="http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373512.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />[/url]</td></tr></table>[url=http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373512.jpg]</td></tr></table><font color="#666666">　　<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">〓 <font color="#cc0066" size="5">3.<font color="#cc0000"> </span><font color="#cc0066">参与工作的经历 <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">〓</span><font color="#666666">　　<font color="#333333">训练孩子最好的方法就是分配工作给他。我们应先考虑孩子的年龄、能力、兴趣和性格，让他帮忙做家务，但也不要强逼他。孩子在担当责任的同时，也觉得备受重视，自会变得懂事。<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" border="0"><tr><td align="center"><table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" border="0"><tr><td><img src="http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373513.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />[/url]</td></tr></table>[url=http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373513.jpg]</td></tr></table><font color="#666666">　　<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">〓 </span><font color="#cc0066">4.<font color="#cc0000" size="3"> 处理不同意见的经历 <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">〓</span><font color="#666666">　　<font color="#333333">与孩子意见不一致时，切忌强行说服他，这只会令他抗拒，即使服从，也只会流于表面化。<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" border="0"><tr><td align="center"><table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" border="0"><tr><td><img src="http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373514.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />[url=http://post.pic.sohu.com/view/picrecommend.do?abc=check&picurls=http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373514.jpg&topicSubject=%BC%D2%B3%A4%D3%A6%B8%F8%D3%E8%BA%A2%D7%D3%B5%C410%B8%F6%BE%AD%C0%FA&domainName=learning.sohu.com&keyWord=%B8%B8%C4%B8%B1%D8%B6%C1%3B%

作者: donghg888 时间: 2006-5-25 08:54
很好."<font color="#333333">与孩子意见不一致时，切忌强行说服他，这只会令他抗拒，即使服从，也只会流于表面化"这一条我做的和它不符啊,我人为有时不能都讲道理的,必要的时候,他得学会服从.

作者: 喜欢梦 时间: 2006-5-25 11:39
好！！

作者: 颢宁爸爸 时间: 2006-5-25 21:16
很好！

作者: diedie33 时间: 2006-6-1 12:16
不错.这比开发什么的更有用.经历是一个人的最大财富.

作者: 乐乐的妈 时间: 2006-6-1 13:46
很好，值得家长学习

作者: wxmalex 时间: 2006-6-1 16:48
谢谢　哦

作者: wxmalex 时间: 2006-6-1 16:50
谢谢哦．

作者: 人生谜情 时间: 2006-6-7 19:05
我一直认为,身教有时候比言传取得的效果好;多一些经历,也会使孩子成长的更快一些,在经历中学到的东西远比你告诉他(她)的要深刻得多.

作者: ywfsnow 时间: 2006-6-8 16:55
值得学习，谢谢

作者: 漫天飞雪 时间: 2006-6-9 11:54
说得很好!!!

作者: 小胖妈妈 时间: 2006-6-12 13:34
<img src="http://www.etjy.com/images/smiles/smile.gif" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> [quote]人生谜情+2006-05-24 19:49-->引用:人生谜情 @ 2006-05-24 19:49 <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><font color="#666666"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><font color="#666666">〓<font color="#cc0000"> <font color="#cc0066" size="5">1. </span><font color="#cc0066">幸福家庭的经历 <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><font color="#666666">〓<font color="#cc0000"> </span>　　<font color="#333333">家庭是孩子的依归，一旦家庭有所动摇，孩子情绪会变得不稳定、坐立不安、容易生气、甚至神经质。我们应该营造一个和谐温馨的家庭气氛，使孩子在充满爱和关怀的环境下成长，让孩子感受何谓幸福家庭，并了解父母的责任。<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" border="0"><tr><td align="center"><table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" border="0"><tr><td><img src="http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373511.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />[/url]</td></tr></table>[url=http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373511.jpg]</td></tr></table><font color="#666666">　　<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">〓 <font color="#cc0066" size="5">2.<font color="#cc0000"> </span><font color="#cc0066">独立处事的经历 <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">〓</span><font color="#666666">　　<font color="#333333">孩子初初尝试，难免遭遇困难，我们不应干预，更不可代他做，应让他从失败中学习。只在重要时刻才替他作决定，但当孩子坚持要自己解决，不妨善用其好胜心，给予适当的鼓励。<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" border="0"><tr><td align="center"><table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" border="0"><tr><td><img src="http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373512.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />[/url]</td></tr></table>[url=http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373512.jpg]</td></tr></table><font color="#666666">　　<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">〓 <font color="#cc0066" size="5">3.<font color="#cc0000"> </span><font color="#cc0066">参与工作的经历 <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">〓</span><font color="#666666">　　<font color="#333333">训练孩子最好的方法就是分配工作给他。我们应先考虑孩子的年龄、能力、兴趣和性格，让他帮忙做家务，但也不要强逼他。孩子在担当责任的同时，也觉得备受重视，自会变得懂事。<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" border="0"><tr><td align="center"><table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" border="0"><tr><td><img src="http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373513.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />[/url]</td></tr></table>[url=http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373513.jpg]</td></tr></table><font color="#666666">　　<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">〓 </span><font color="#cc0066">4.<font color="#cc0000" size="3"> 处理不同意见的经历 <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">〓</span><font color="#666666">　　<font color="#333333">与孩子意见不一致时，切忌强行说服他，这只会令他抗拒，即使服从，也只会流于表面化。<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" border="0"><tr><td align="center"><table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" border="0"><tr><td><img src="http://photocdn.sohu.com/20060523/Img243373514.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURS

作者: doudoumm 时间: 2006-6-12 16:19
What wondeful words!

作者: hwzxzxq 时间: 2006-6-14 08:57
很有说服力

作者: plbaobao 时间: 2006-6-15 14:07
<font color="#cc0066" size="5">4.<font color="#cc0000" size="3"> <font color="#cc0066">处理不同意见的经历<font color="#666666"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">〓</span><font color="#666666">　　<font color="#333333">与孩子意见不一致时，切忌强行说服他，这只会令他抗拒，即使服从，也只会流于表面化。<font color="#333333">这条很难做到啊！有很多事情很难解释为什么啊

作者: bychen 时间: 2006-7-20 09:50
好，学习中

作者: 陶陶11 时间: 2006-7-20 23:33
学习！当个称职的父母，太难了！

作者: nmbtlx 时间: 2006-7-21 07:23
很好，值得家长学习

作者: zhxmbb 时间: 2006-7-21 08:22
看来学习真是终身的啊！共同努力！

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