祝孩子们天天健康快乐！

标题: 【原创】 意外的收获 [打印本页]
作者: 细数阳光    时间: 2006-5-1 08:48
标题: 【原创】 意外的收获
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> 孩子放假了，俺乐翻天，不必天天迎来送往，老百姓今儿高兴，带孩子到超市溜达。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">暂时得解放的我乐此不疲地四处闲逛，孩子好像步履维艰，声声怨：说自己烦，又没东西要买。。。。。。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">想到他刚学完元、角、分，何不给他钱让他也当家作主呢，“宝贝，我给你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman">15</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">元钱，可以随意买自己想要的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman">5</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">样东西，自己结算，看看你能不能完成任务！”大权在握的儿子立即来了兴致。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> 遂兵分两路，各自完成任务，会师地点选在收银台。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> 儿子首当其冲杀向小食品区，我怕出意外，尾随其后，见他一改往日疯狂掠夺架势，不时地上看下看，看价格标签，有的东西拿起又放下，在那儿精挑细选。绕一圈找到我，“妈妈，那果冻忒贵，一个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman">2</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">元钱，我觉得不值，火腿肠有的要</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman">11</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">元呢！我买的最便宜的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman">3</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">元多。。。。。”他蹲在地上点数，“我还剩</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman">6</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">元</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman">8</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">角，不花了，再花就更少了。”惊喜，这可是俺没想到的，他知道了节省，明白了钱不是大把大把的。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">以前，由于他淘，到哪儿都惹来蛙声一片，我就实施外紧内松政策，典型地亲历亲为、大包大揽，以为这样可以少生事端。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">反思，限制孩子手脚的同时也禁锢了孩子思维，孩子在接受着家长“馈赠”中钝化了各种能力，我们为此大伤脑筋，寻求治病良方。回头间发现遗落在自己手里，拿走了本该属于孩子的东西，物归原主吧。适当的“权利”下放，会激发极大热情，带来意外的收获。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"></span>
作者: may011011    时间: 2006-5-1 10:36
支持,说得真好
作者: wjx871    时间: 2006-5-1 15:38
好心得，值得分享！
作者: 犀牛妈    时间: 2006-5-1 19:36
收获很大啊!
作者: 听语漫步    时间: 2006-5-2 20:05
阳光终于发现自身的优点了，也发现了儿子的优点
作者: 乐乐的妈    时间: 2006-5-2 21:30
看来你儿子很有经济头脑,不错
作者: 小灰熊    时间: 2006-5-3 10:40
这样挺好，很多时候，是我们大人剥夺了孩子锻炼的机会啊。
作者: etjypcz    时间: 2006-5-4 03:47
经验从小事中发掘,既培养了孩子勤俭节约的好习惯,还体现了父母对孩子的关心和爱护.对孩子的成长也是很有帮助的.不错!
作者: QDWQG    时间: 2006-5-4 06:56
该放手时就放手，好
作者: zhq    时间: 2006-5-4 13:21
<img src="http://www.etjy.com./images/smiles/smile(1).gif" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />
听语漫步+2006-05-02 20:05-->引用:听语漫步 @ 2006-05-02 20:05 阳光终于发现自身的优点了，也发现了儿子的优点
作者: zhq    时间: 2006-5-4 13:21
<img src="http://www.etjy.com./images/smiles/adore.gif" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />
QDWQG+2006-05-04 06:56-->引用DWQG @ 2006-05-04 06:56 该放手时就放手，好
作者: zhq    时间: 2006-5-4 13:22
<img src="http://www.etjy.com./images/smiles/quite.gif" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />
小灰熊+2006-05-03 10:40-->引用:小灰熊 @ 2006-05-03 10:40 这样挺好，很多时候，是我们大人剥夺了孩子锻炼的机会啊。
作者: zhq    时间: 2006-5-4 13:22
<img src="http://www.etjy.com./images/smiles/xizao.gif" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /><img src="http://www.etjy.com./images/smiles/adore.gif" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />
犀牛妈+2006-05-01 19:36-->引用:犀牛妈 @ 2006-05-01 19:36 收获很大啊!
作者: zhq    时间: 2006-5-4 13:23
<img src="http://www.etjy.com./images/smiles/heart.gif" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /><img src="http://www.etjy.com./images/smiles/smile.gif" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> <img src="http://www.etjy.com./images/smiles/quite.gif" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />
may011011+2006-05-01 10:36-->引用:may011011 @ 2006-05-01 10:36 支持,说得真好
作者: zhq    时间: 2006-5-4 13:23
<img src="http://www.etjy.com./images/smiles/quite.gif" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />
细数阳光+2006-05-01 08:48-->引用:细数阳光 @ 2006-05-01 08:48 <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> 孩子放假了，俺乐翻天，不必天天迎来送往，老百姓今儿高兴，带孩子到超市溜达。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">暂时得解放的我乐此不疲地四处闲逛，孩子好像步履维艰，声声怨：说自己烦，又没东西要买。。。。。。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">想到他刚学完元、角、分，何不给他钱让他也当家作主呢，“宝贝，我给你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman">15</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">元钱，可以随意买自己想要的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman">5</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">样东西，自己结算，看看你能不能完成任务！”大权在握的儿子立即来了兴致。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> 遂兵分两路，各自完成任务，会师地点选在收银台。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> 儿子首当其冲杀向小食品区，我怕出意外，尾随其后，见他一改往日疯狂掠夺架势，不时地上看下看，看价格标签，有的东西拿起又放下，在那儿精挑细选。绕一圈找到我，“妈妈，那果冻忒贵，一个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman">2</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">元钱，我觉得不值，火腿肠有的要</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman">11</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">元呢！我买的最便宜的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman">3</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">元多。。。。。”他蹲在地上点数，“我还剩</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman">6</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">元</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font face="Times New Roman">8</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">角，不花了，再花就更少了。”惊喜，这可是俺没想到的，他知道了节省，明白了钱不是大把大把的。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">以前，由于他淘，到哪儿都惹来蛙声一片，我就实施外紧内松政策，典型地亲历亲为、大包大揽，以为这样可以少生事端。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">反思，限制孩子手脚的同时也禁锢了孩子思维，孩子在接受着家长“馈赠”中钝化了各种能力，我们为此大伤脑筋，寻求治病良方。回头间发现遗落在自己手里，拿走了本该属于孩子的东西，物归原主吧。适当的“权利”下放，会激发极大热情，带来意外的收获。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"></span>
作者: zhq    时间: 2006-5-4 13:24
zhq+2006-05-04 13:23-->引用:zhq @ 2006-05-04 13:23 <img src="http://www.etjy.com./images/smiles/quite.gif" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />
作者: zhq    时间: 2006-5-4 13:24
<img src="http://www.etjy.com./images/smiles/shame.gif" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt= style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" />



欢迎光临 祝孩子们天天健康快乐！ (http://www.xetjy.com/) Powered by Discuz! X3.2