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标题: 【推荐】西方的家庭教育四十条 [打印本页]
作者: yflx2008    时间: 2006-3-24 21:24
标题: 【推荐】西方的家庭教育四十条
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">1.对孩子提出的所有问题，都耐心、诚实地做出回答。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">2.认真对待孩子提出的正经问题和看法。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">3.做一个陈列架，让孩子在上面充分展示自己的作品。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">4.不因孩子房间里或者桌面上很乱而责骂他，只要这与他的创造活动有关。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">5.给孩子一个房间或者房间的一部分，主要供孩子玩耍。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">6.向孩子说明，他本身已经很可爱，用不着再表现自己。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">7.让孩子做他力所能及的事情。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">8.帮孩子制定他的个人计划和完成计划的方法。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">9.带孩子到他感兴趣的地方去玩。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">10.帮助孩子修改他的作业。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">11.帮助孩子与来自不同社会文化阶层的孩子正常交往。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">12.家长养成合理的行为习惯并留心使孩子学着去做。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">13.永远不对孩子说，他比别的孩子差。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">14.允许孩子参加计划家务和外出旅行的事情。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">15.向孩子提供书籍和材料，让孩子干自己喜爱的事情。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">16.教孩子与各种年龄的成年人自由交往。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">17.定期为孩子读点东西。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">18.让孩子从小养成读书的习惯。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">19.鼓励孩子编故事，去幻想。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">20.认真地对待孩子的个人要求。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">21.每天都抽出时间和孩子单独在一起。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">22.不用辱骂来惩治孩子。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">23.不能因孩子犯错误而戏弄他。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">24.表扬孩子会背诗、讲故事和唱歌曲。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">25.让孩子独立思考问题。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">26.详细制订实验计划，帮助孩子了解更多的事情。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">27.允许孩子玩各种废弃物。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">28.鼓励孩子发现问题，随后解决这些问题。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">29.在孩子干的事情中，不断寻找值得赞许的地方。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">30.不要空洞地、不真诚地表扬孩子。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">31.诚实地评价自己对孩子的感情。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">32.不存在家长完全不能与孩子讨论的话题。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">33.让孩子有机会自己做决定。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">34.帮助孩子成为有个性的人。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">35.帮助孩子寻找值得注意的电视节目。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">36.发挥孩子积极认识自己才干的能力。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">37.不对孩子的失败表示瞧不起，并对孩子说：</span><font face="宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">我也不会干这个。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 宋体">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"></span> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">38.鼓励孩子尽量不依赖成年人。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">39.相信孩子的理智并信任他。</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 5pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">40.让孩子独立完成他所从事的工作的基本部分，哪怕不会有积极的结果</span>
作者: 208208    时间: 2006-3-30 16:55
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作者: 晨曦宝贝    时间: 2006-3-30 17:04
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