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标题: 【原创】孩子的话的真实意图 [打印本页]

作者: 泉妈 时间: 2006-1-13 13:22
标题: 【原创】孩子的话的真实意图
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"></span>真<span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>实<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>意<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>图</span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">1、<span style="COLOR: red">“我讨厌你总是告诉我应该做什么！”</span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 方正舒体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">真实意图：</span><u><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">你渴望更多地主宰自己的生活。</span></u><u><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑"></span></u><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-char-indent-count: 1.0; mso-char-indent-size: 14.0pt"><u><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">你想对这个决定有更多的自主权。<span lang="EN-US"></span></span></u><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-char-indent-count: 1.0; mso-char-indent-size: 14.0pt"><u><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">你想让我认识到，你有能力更多地</span></u><u><span style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">自己做决定。<span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue"></span></span></u><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">2、<span style="COLOR: red">“我不管安全不安全，我非去不可！”</span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 方正舒体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">真实意图：</span><u><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">你真的特别在乎这件事。</span></u><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">3、<span style="COLOR: red">“除草机坏了，我想拿工具把它修一修，可把工具的锁弄坏了。”</span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 方正舒体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">家长的反应：</span><u><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">你有勇告诉我这件事，太好了。<span lang="EN-US"></span></span></u><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">4、<span style="COLOR: red">“我以后再也不整理我的房间了。”</span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 方正舒体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">真实意图：</span><u><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">你想要对发生的事有更多的自主权。<span lang="EN-US"></span></span></u><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">5、<span style="COLOR: red">“我是一个笨蛋。”</span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 方正舒体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">真实意图：</span><u><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">你想比现在做得更好。</span></u><u><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑"></span></u><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">6、<span style="COLOR: red">“你什么事都怪我。”</span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 方正舒体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">真实意图：</span><u><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">我对你要求太高了。</span></u><u><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑"></span></u><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">7、<span style="COLOR: red">“你从来不听我说。”</span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 方正舒体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">真实意图：</span><u><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">你很希望我关注你。<span lang="EN-US"></span></span></u><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">8、<span style="COLOR: red">将干净叠好的衣服，在脏脏的地上拖，然后将他们塞进洗衣机。</span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 方正舒体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE:

作者: 健乐宝 时间: 2006-1-13 13:40

泉妈+2006-01-13 13:22-->引用:泉妈 @ 2006-01-13 13:22 <u><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑"><span lang="EN-US"></span></span></u><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">33、<span style="COLOR: red">6岁的儿子告诉你今天班上画画，老师表扬他了。</span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">家长的反应：</span><u><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑">适当的表扬：“今天真漂亮”比“你是最漂亮的”合适得多。“你讲的故事真有趣”比“你讲故事是全班最棒的”更合理。<span lang="EN-US"></span></span></u><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><u><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 华文行楷; mso-hansi-font-family: 华文细黑"></span></u>

是的，切勿在孩子面前贬低他人，抬高自已。

作者: wjx871 时间: 2006-1-16 11:51
好贴，谢谢分享！

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