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如何成为一个好的交谈者?我们一定听过很多这方面的建议，例如：要看着对方的眼睛，提前想好可以讨论的有趣话题，注视和点头并且微笑来表明你的专注，重复你刚才听到的，或者做总结等。本次TED演讲者Celeste Headlee女士认为这些技巧完全没用，我们可以将它们丢在一边，因为如果你交谈时确实很专心的话， 就根本没必要去学习如何表现你很专心的技巧。 让我们洗耳聆听她这次给大家带来的最新也是最实用关于如何成为更好交谈者的十条建议吧。 （编辑整理：网易公开课）
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Ten rules to have a polite conversation. Number One: Don't multitask. Be present. Be in that moment. Don't be half in it and half out of it. Number Two: Don't pontificate. You need to enter every conversation assuming that you have something to learn. Bill Nye:" Everyone you will ever meet knows something that you don't." Number three: Use open-ended questions. Number four: Go with the flow. Number five: If you don't know, say that you don't know. Number six: Don't equate your experience with theirs. All experiences are individual. Convesations are not a promotional opportunity. Number seven: Try not to repeat yourself. Number eight: Stay out of the weeds. Number nine: (the most important) Listen. Stephen Covey: Most of us don't listen with the intent to understand. We listen with the intent to reply. Number ten: Be brief.