别溺爱我。我很清楚的知道，不应该得到每一样我所要求的东西，我只是在试探你。
Don't spoil me; I know quite well that I ought not to have all that I ask for, I'm only testing you...
别害怕对我保持公正的态度，它反倒让我有安全感。
Don't be afraid to be firm with me; it makes me feel more secure...
别让我养成坏习惯，在年幼的此刻，我得依靠你来分辨它。
Don't let me form bad habits; I have to rely on you to detect them at an early age...
别让我觉得我比实际的我还要渺小。它只会让我愚蠢的装出超出我实际年龄的傻模样。
Don't make me feel smaller than I am; it only makes me behave stupidly 'big'...
如果能够，请别在人前纠正我的错误。你私下的提醒，会让我更加的注意自已的行为。
Don't correct me in front of other people if you can help it; I'll take much more notice if you talk quietly to me in private...
别让我觉得我犯的错误是一种罪，它会降低我的人生价值观。
Don't make me feel that my mistakes are sins; it upsets my sense of values...
当我说「我恨你」的时候别太沮丧。我恨的绝不是你，而是那降在我身上的压力
Don't be too upset when I say "I hate you"; it isn't you I hate but your power to thwart me...
别过度的保护我怕我无法接受一些「后果」。有的时候我需要经由痛苦的方式来学习。
Don't overprotect me from consequences; I need to learn the painful way sometimes...
别太在意我的小病痛，有时候，我只是想得到你的注意。
Don't take too much notice of my small ailments; sometimes they just get me the attention I need...
别唠叨不休，否则有时候我会装聋作哑。
Don't nag; if you do, I shall have to protect myself by ignoring you...
别在仓促或无意中做下允诺。请记住当你不能信守诺言时我会是多么的难过。
Don't make rash promises; remember that I feel badly let down when promises are broken...
别忘了我还不能把事情解释得很清楚，虽然有时候我看起来像是有能力，这也是为什么我不能事事正确无误的缘故。
Don't forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I should like; that is why I'm not always accurate...
别太指望我的诚实，我很容易因为害怕而撒谎。
Don't tax my honesty too much; I am easily frightened into telling lies...
请别在管教原则上前后不连贯、不持续。它会使我疑惑而对你失去了信任。
Don't be inconsistent; that completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in you...
当我问问题的时候别敷衍我或拒绝我。否则你会发现我终将停止对你发问，而向他处寻求答案。
Don't put me off when I ask questions; if you do, you will find that I stop asking and seek my information elsewhere...
别告诉我说我的害怕很傻、很可笑。如果你试着去了解便会发现它对我是多么的真实。
Don't tell me my fears are silly; they are terribly real to me and you do much to reassure me if you try to understand...
别暗示或让我感觉到你是完美、无懈可击的。当我发现你并非如此的时候，对我将一项多么大的打击。
Don't ever suggest that you are perfect or infailable; it gives me too great a shock when I discover that you are neither...
别认为向我道歉是没有尊严的事。一个诚实的道歉会让我对你更接近、对你感觉温暖。
Don't ever think it is beneath you to apologise to me; an honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm to you...
别忘记我最爱做实验，几乎每天生活中都离不开它，请容忍。
Don't forget I love experimenting; I can't grow without it so please put up with it...
别忘了我很快便会长大。对你来说要和我一起成长是多么不易的事，但请尝试。
Don't forget how quickly I'm growing up; it must be very difficult for you to keep pace with me but please try...
别忘了没有那许多的了解和爱，我是不能成长茁壮的，但是我并不需对你说出这点，对不对?
Don't forget that I can't thrive without lots of understanding love; but I don't need to tell you that, do I...?作者: besthcy 时间: 2008-3-24 17:53
不错不错，谢谢楼主！作者: kunbaobao 时间: 2008-3-31 15:51
太好了,谢谢作者: zhaoxuan24000 时间: 2008-4-12 22:08
好东西，谢谢作者: 见习编辑 时间: 2009-6-6 23:29
太好了。谢谢作者: 畅畅妈妈 时间: 2009-6-10 23:41
我觉得很具体，很有可操作性。谢谢作者: wenyanzhang 时间: 2009-6-30 13:59
好!受益匪浅!谢谢楼主!作者: 桃多多 时间: 2009-6-30 14:55
太好了。。。。家人就是需要时常被提醒的。。。作者: tangyj03 时间: 2009-7-1 14:42
收藏，谢谢楼主作者: tomatoma 时间: 2009-7-8 13:32
感谢楼主和我们分享作者: Rachel0919 时间: 2009-7-8 20:17
需要时时提醒自己 很多问题当我们在面对的时候 尤其需要一个声音来阻止自己可能对孩子造成的伤害作者: LIYY_0308 时间: 2010-9-7 08:10
不错，谢谢楼主，收藏了。作者: bluebluee 时间: 2010-9-9 13:12
收藏。谢谢。。。。。。。。。作者: taroo 时间: 2010-9-10 10:18
很有道理，学习中……作者: 俞园园 时间: 2010-9-12 10:55
不错，正是中国孩子身上缺少的作者: yuan191271333 时间: 2010-9-12 20:48
好东西，留下了。
