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作者: hlp525    时间: 2011-9-28 09:10
标题: homework, all about homework !
大家想了解一下上海的学校,尤其是上海国际学校的孩子们的作业情况吗?想看看家长们,尤其是那些外国学生的家长们如何看待作业量的问题吗?相应地,这些孩子们和家长们面对作业,他们的态度如何,又是如何应对的?下面的文章可以给出一些答案。

看完之后,可以讨论分享一下各自的观点哦:) 如,你认为要不要留家庭作业?如果要留,作业量多少为合适?如何才能把握好孩子学业和其它方面发展的平衡?。。。。

不能全部看懂英语的家长让孩子来帮忙,练习一下阅读理解

转载:http://www.shfamily.com/blog/2011/08/22/the-h-word-tackling-the-homework-question/  作者: Lynette MacDonald

School’s in and that means homework is on the agenda again for Shanghai families. But what’s in it for the kids?
by Lynette MacDonald
August 2011

Does homework monopolize your family life? Is it the first thing you ask your children about when they get home from school? And the last thing you remind them of before they head off in the morning? Does homework time mean sulking and yelling, or is it an opportunity to spend quality time with your children?

For every family, the answers to these questions will be different. But as our kids roll up for their first few weeks of school for the year, setting the homework routine is one of the most important adjustments to make after the carefree summer break. For some the adjustment will be greater, especially kids coming from other countries into the hothouse of Shanghai schooling for the first time,

So what do the kids get out of homework?

How Much is Too Much?

Research on the topic from the USA, UK and Australia, suggests there may be some benefits from small amounts of homework compared to none at all, but that too much homework can, in fact, have a negative affect on students’ academic performance. In 2004, Education Queensland in Australia reviewed 64 mainly British and American studies into the effectiveness of homework and concluded that there is a “point of diminishing returns”, after which the more time spent studying actually produces worse academic results. It also concluded that students should be set no more than 10 minutes homework per night for each year of schooling (eg. 60 minutes in 6th Grade), up to a maximum of two hours per day in 12th Grade.

Leading US education researcher Alfie Kohn caused a sensation with his article The Truth About Homework (2006) when he suggested there is no evidence that homework has any benefits at elementary school level. His research also indicated that any perceived benefits from homework to test scores in high school, “have a tendency to disappear when more sophisticated statistical controls are applied.”

However, the chances of homework being relegated to the dustbin of educational history are slim.

Teacher Perspectives

A great deal of time and effort has been put into the question of whether homework is beneficial to children’s learning. It’s this research, along with personal experience as a teacher and education administrator, which has influenced Shanghai Community International School Middle School Principal Dan Kerr to reconsider the way homework will be set at the school.

Having read the research, Kerr calls himself a “no homework kind of guy”. He says his watershed moment occurred “the first time I saw an 11 year old who was cutting herself. I’ve worked in Toronto, Abu Dabi, Jakarta and now Shanghai, and I’ve seen this everywhere I’ve been. From my perspective, even if there’s only one kid doing this due to academic stress, we have to look at our programs. If one is doing it then others will be feeling it and not reacting in the same way.”

However, that won’t mean no homework at all for SCIS Middle School students, but a time limit of 15 minutes per subject per day, and guidelines to ensure that homework set is relevant to and consolidates what’s been taught in class during the day.

It’s a principle that forms the basis of the homework guidelines at Yew Chung International School as well. Matt Grady is Key Stage 3 Coordinator at Yew Chung International School (YCIS) and he says, “Homework helps our students to understand, consolidate and extend what’s been covered in class. Beyond academic performance, homework encourages students to work and learn independently which becomes more important as our students head towards higher education. We have weekly staff and departmental meetings to monitor homework load … and seldom set homework as a task that is due the next day … (to) relieve the ‘due tomorrow’ anxiety.”

Stressed Out

Psychologist Patty LaValle says homework can be immensely stressful for kids in Grades 6-12, particularly in Shanghai where “the pressure comes not only from parents who want their kids to be academically near perfect, but also from peer pressure to be the best, and finally internally driven by the student.” She points to the fact that expat kids typically have high achieving, risk taking parents, who produce kids very similar to themselves. LaValle adds, “You then add the Asian influence of higher academic expectations (the tiger mom syndrome) and the pressures are exceedingly high.” She says many teens can’t handle the pressure and turn to drugs, alcohol, sex, eating disorders, and other high risk behaviors to cope. “I worked with a group of high school boys who were athletes and good students who were caught smoking marijuana and when asked why they chose to smoke they said to relieve academic stress. In the States, the answer would have been because they were curious.”

Home Life

Perhaps the most telling comparison to make is between the homework demands on children today, and those of their parents. Shanghai’s international and bilingual schools are inhabited by expat families who come from many different countries, and so the homework history of the parents is quite varied. However, one thing is common. None of the high achieving parents I interviewed did anywhere near the amount of homework their own children do now.
The Bongart family is a long-term expat family whose children were born in China to German parents. The three children, Antonia (13), Caroline (11) and Tibor (10) have each attended local Chinese school, before moving on to American international school (Antonia) and British bilingual school (Caroline and Tibor). Having experienced the rigors of the Chinese local system, for these kids, homework is just part of life.

Mom Maya Bongart says, “It was toughest for Antonia (in Chinese school). In 1st Grade we had a tutor fetch her from school, take her home and they did one hour of homework together. But we were flexible to adapt to each child’s needs. We took Tibor out (of Chinese school) after only three months because we didn’t want to push him beyond his limits.”

Despite the fact her three children complete between 45 minutes and 1½ hours of homework each night, Bongart says, “Personally, I don’t see the point of homework in primary school. (Back in Germany) We went to school until 12 noon, and we’re still not dumb.” However she adds, “If they do what everyone else does, then they don’t suffer from it. The children don’t know anything else.” Indeed, of the children only Caroline commented, “I feel stressed sometimes if I don’t understand the questions, if they’re too difficult. But then I just ask the teacher the next day.”

By comparison, Australian mom Alexis Lawrence is encouraging her daughter, Cameron, to return to Australia and attend boarding school until her parents repatriate at the end of 2012, rather than meet the tougher homework expectations in Shanghai. She draws direct comparisons between the homework load at her child’s former Australian private school where five hours per week is required in 7th Grade, compared with 8 hours per week at her international school in Shanghai.

Lawrence, whose older son James has just completed 12th Grade, says she doesn’t want her daughter to go through the same pressure to complete the IB course. She says, “For Grades 11 and 12, they expect six hours of homework per subject per week. With six subjects, that’s 36 hours, the equivalent of a full-time job. Back in Australia, there’s more of a balance between school and leisure activities and time for kids to just hang out.” Lawrence adds, “I did almost no homework even in high school, and I was accepted into university and completed my degree.”

When Beth and Rob Parker moved with their three children from Ohio, USA three years ago, they chose to put the kids into a local Chinese school with an international stream. At the time of the move the children were all at elementary school and, back in the States, routinely brought home no homework. Mom Beth says, “As a parent, that troubled me. How could I know how they were coping with the school work? And help them when they needed it?”

Three years down the track, and Jason (9th Grade), Sarah (6th Grade) and Brian (4th Grade) are accustomed to nightly, and even holiday homework. Fourteen year old Jason is less than impressed by his homwork load. As the family lives quite a distance from school, Jason says he tries to do as much of his homework at school, during lunch time and between classes. He says the total each day is between 2 and 2 hours, but that it’s inconsistent. Jason says, “Some days I have almost no homework, and other days I have tons. It’s frustrating because the teachers don’t talk to each other and when I complain they say it’s all part of the learning process.” This erratic workload also has flow-on effects for Jason’s siblings as he admits, “When I have too much homework, I get in a really bad mood and really stressed out. Then I take it out on my brother and sister.”

While all three Parker kids say they sometimes are stressed by homework, they also note that their workloads are much lighter than the other kids in their classes who attend academies or music and art lessons after school, and then complete homework late into the night.

The major concern for Beth Parker is finding kids who are allowed to play or have “down time” with her own. She explains, “We’ve asked for Brian’s friends to come over for a sleepover on the weekend, but their parents won’t let them come until after the exams. They’re in 4th Grade and they have to study all weekend.”

Thanks Mom!

It would be a brave school, indeed, that embarked on a “no homework” policy in Shanghai where much of children’s afterschool workload is set by their parents.
Shanghai Singapore International School parent Winnie Suli Yong is mom to 9 year old Aren and 5 year old Keira. She is also refreshingly frank about her decision to set extra homework for her children in addition to the homework set by their teachers, attributing it to her own competitiveness. “My daughter enjoys doing extra work. The school does not set homework at her age, so I buy workbooks from the States or Singapore and she does 15 to 30 minutes per day. My son only gets about half an hour of homework per night, so I give him test papers from Singapore and he has tutoring in Math and Chinese.”

So does this extra “mom” homework make for a harmonious home? Asked if he enjoys doing homework, Aren says he finds it “irritating”. Mom Winnie adds, “I do nag at him. Sometimes I force him to do it, sometimes I let it go. I really don’t want to force him. Sometimes it might get a little ugly.” For the record, growing up in Singapore Winnie doesn’t remember having homework in elementary school, and says her parents thought she could look after herself, so weren’t involved in homework in later years.

Getting the Balance Right

If you accept that homework isn’t going to go away, the question is, how do families get the balance right? According to SCIS’s Dan Kerr, there’s got to be commitment from parents as well as schools. He says, “We’ve got to allow kids to relax and do nothing sometimes. That means not letting them take on too many after school activities, and for parents, there’s an expectation that you are spending time with your kids.” Matt Grady from YCIS concurs, “…many students these days are also spending extra time on academics at home with private tutors and enrolling in other outside education courses. However, from my perspective it is equally important to be focusing on developing non-academic interests and activities.”

[ 本帖最后由 hlp525 于 2011-9-28 11:06 编辑 ]
作者: 榴琏    时间: 2011-9-28 11:09
“If they do what everyone else does, then they don’t suffer from it. The children don’t know anything else.” 看到这句, 看到中国式妈妈的缩影。

我孩子每天见到我第一句话就是:妈妈, 今天作业***。昨天说作业很好, 骑了两圈自行车就回来写作业了, 从4点做到6点。 我们还是elementary school, 想想中学就可怕。
作者: 榴琏    时间: 2011-9-28 11:12
作为中国虎妈, 觉得还是要留家庭作业,  就翻翻书复习一下吧, 半小时最多了对于现在的我们。然后就可以阅读啊, 半小时到一小时, 这个也是学习, 然后做自己孩子喜欢的事,一个小时到二小时。
作者: 灼灼亭亭    时间: 2011-9-28 11:35
不知道现在中学生有多少作业哟!

我认识一个小地方高一的,基本上是做完作业就到十一二点了。
所以他的同学很多都不做完。
但他很勤恳的都做完,最快也要到十一点多。
父母都忧虑呢。

另外一个高一的女孩也这样,作业连上自习,正常要到十一二点,考试之前一周,基本要到2-3点,等于没有几个小时的睡眠时间。

想想真可怕。

我对学习的看法,还是悠着点儿,日子还长着呢,何必把一辈子要读的书、要做的作业都集中在十八年一股脑儿的都塞给孩子呢?
看看那些高考之后撕书的图片,怎一个心颤了得!
作者: 阿豆妈妈    时间: 2011-9-28 12:36
标题: 回复 #4 wanyi77 的帖子
写作业要到2~3点!

如果,到了高中,孩子要经历这样的痛苦学习,我觉得不读书也罢....

如果我们还同意孩子写完作业后才睡觉,就是“助纣为虐”!
作者: hlp525    时间: 2011-9-28 13:15
我的观点作业要尽量少,没有也行:)

我平时不怎么和老师沟通,老师布置太多作业,我没能力限制。但孩子这边,我会保证孩子休息,到了休息时间,夺过孩子的笔,把她按到床上。

如果作业量长期过大,也只能长期有选择地部分完成。

我不会去帮着社会毁自己的孩子!
作者: 做个耐心妈妈    时间: 2011-9-28 13:36
标题: 回复: homework, all about homework !
初中比小学作业多多了 和儿子一起看 儿子是一定要不择不扣的完成作业的 谢谢分享
作者: sunxian128    时间: 2011-9-28 13:39
阳阳在小学5-6年级碰到的数学班主任是一直不留回家作业的,一律要求在校完成。阳阳班级的数学非但没有退步,每次考试都是年级前列。进了中学,现在笔头作业不多的,口头作业较多,但阳阳基本和小学一样,在7点半前能把所有作业完成了。不过现在是开始阶段,以后不知道会咋样。
作者: nus123    时间: 2011-9-28 17:21
重要的是作业的质量, 没有必要重复的大量的作业甚至是孩子已掌握的东西。我孩子4年级, 还没有这个问题i。

这里的大学,学生们睡得很少的,一般都是2,3点睡,早上的课最早的9:00am 开始
作者: suyangchen    时间: 2011-9-28 19:10
我家的高一了,在市里的重点中学,每天在学校上晚自习到9点,回家来还有大概40-60分钟的作业要写。孩子说她的心情和完成作业情况成正比,在学校作业差不多快写完或已经写完的情况下,心情就很好。否则,晚上放学回来,也还是绷着那根弦。

想想也是,成人经过一天的劳累,晚上都想休息、放松一下了,可孩子晚上要写到11点甚至更晚。
作者: xxbzh    时间: 2011-9-28 22:02
标题: 宝儿学校的作业不多
孩子有点作业是应该的,否则不练习能学会写字吗?

零压力是不可能的,我个人感觉零压力也不见得就是健康的生活方式,无论是孩子和大人,张弛有度最好。

我同意作业应该和年级成比例。

宝儿没有写昨天留的作业,因为今天运动会不交。今天下午去同学家玩没有写,晚上快9点开始写,10点之前写完,现在洗完澡了。

学校的作业基本上是每天一个小时的量,宝儿很多时候在学校写完一部分,回家作业不多,有时候在学校就写完了。

[ 本帖最后由 xxbzh 于 2011-9-28 22:14 编辑 ]
作者: mary_xing    时间: 2011-9-28 22:57
标题: 回复 #1 hlp525 的帖子
好想说几句,无奈得出门,明天才能回来
等回来再分享一下我所见到的情况吧
作者: 风淡云清518    时间: 2011-9-28 23:06
我家今年小一,17:45下课,有些作业已经在学校完成了,如果通不过的回家在完成,回家要完成语文的课文阅读,默写单词;数学要复习一遍今天做的题目和教得内容,还有口算;英文也是在复习已经学过的课文;就这样也要弄到9点才能阅读,9:30睡觉,我也向让孩子早点睡,可怎么也快不起来。苦恼啊!
作者: 三棵小树mom    时间: 2011-9-28 23:47
我家女儿初一,开学以来一直晚上十一二点睡觉,最晚的一次一点半。我很心疼,叫她随便写,她说做错了老师打人。最近一周好一点,基本十点半睡。身体垮了,成绩好又有什么用呢。
作者: aabbxx    时间: 2011-9-29 00:26
心疼但无奈,儿子是一定要完成作业的,谢谢分享 ~~
作者: mary_xing    时间: 2011-9-29 04:25
标题: 回复 #1 hlp525 的帖子
晚上去一朋友家吃饭,他的三儿子正在上高二,那种谈吐气质,那种活泼开朗的性格,感染了在场的好几个中国父母
他现在每天早上8:00上课,下午2:00放学,回家就打打球,游游泳,在门前的保护区玩玩(有羚羊,斑马,长颈鹿,角马等)作业只是课余生活的点缀。
高中的课程有会计,工程类等各类选修学科
可见不一定非得是每天有做不完的作业才能学好
但是在中国的大环境下.........
作者: sunninghill    时间: 2011-9-29 04:29
在中国the chances of homework being relegated to the dustbin of educational history are slim.

但是教育界的老婆婆老爷爷们能不能不要搞那么多超纲的内容啊,奥术不应该是大众化的,是让一部分能有力且感兴趣的人去学习的。

在目前这个教育体制扭曲的国家,我们怎么办呢?
作者: lillianwang3    时间: 2011-9-29 05:43
听到好几个孩子才小学二三年纪, 作业就要弄到晚上8,9点,  没有时间做别的事情. 小朋友真辛苦啊.
作者: amanda_lmy    时间: 2011-9-29 05:57
我们也是刚上小学一年级,我倒赞成老师适当的留点作业,目的是孩子太小,把一天在学校学习的东西给她巩固巩固,帮助她理解和扩展扩展,仅此而已。可老师经常让预习,英语我自己倒赞成,就先听听磁带呗,可是语文数学我觉得这样不好,毕竟我们不是专业的老师,教的不一样孩子不是晕菜了吗?数学书上没有讲解,差不多都是习题,在家里先做一遍,第二天上学校再做一遍,没有必要,总觉得什么东西第一印象很重要,新知识第一遍好好讲解,定会给她留下深刻印象。其实看到很多孩子是高年级的家长,有时也充满无奈,我也是这样的,有些题没有必要反反复复做那么多遍,可如果不完成作业,关键是怕孩子在学校受到老师劈头盖脸的批评,孩子心里该多难受。说白了,这是一个社会问题,矛盾众多。只是时刻提醒自己,别让自己有功利心,多为孩子想想。这一阵子我也经常思考这个问题
作者: guihuaxiang    时间: 2011-9-29 07:57
儿子经常不写作业,老师对我也很有看法。可儿子的成绩一直在班级前几名。
作者: 大凯小凯    时间: 2011-9-29 08:02
我有两个孩子,正好是个对照实验。

大的受国际学校教育(中国学校国际部),今年开始初中。这几年来基本没见他在家做作业,偶尔会写点什么,也是一会儿就搞定,根本算不上有什么作业。孩子自己很爱看书,我从Amazon上买了些,没几天就读完了。书都满贵的,真希望有图书馆可以借书。我们不给他额外加功课/作业,也不上辅导班。

小的在普通学校上学,今年才小二。每天作业挺多的,加上孩子磨蹭,每天要做2-3小时。语文要抄写/默写词语,背诵一部分课文;数学要做口算/速算,还有课外教辅书,内容比教科书要深。另外,中国学校的测试也多,卷子要订正、家长签名。每天都搞得很晚。我觉得这已经够了。但怕孩子没完成作业受老师批评,还是尽量让他把作业完成才睡觉。个人觉得每天适当(0。5-1小时)即可,作业太多没必要。

至于两种教育方式下孩子的个性、创造性的成长,明显不同。这是更大的话题。
作者: jjmrong7    时间: 2011-9-29 08:40
孩子刚上一年级,学校要求每天阅读英语,语文各25分钟,数学口算,听算都要做一定的题目,还有其他的写字呀,背课文呀,总之作完作业也需要一个多小时,这才刚开学呀!?
作者: rzmg001    时间: 2011-9-29 08:47
这是我的一块旧伤,孩子小学在中国,作业多的做不完,光语文3--4种作业、累赘重复的多。到考试期间,10几张的卷子,除了功课,教材的学习,没有什么其他的技能和娱乐方面的培养了。最糟糕的是累坏孩子,孩子的压力特大,心理问题都来了。原来是那么阳光可爱、集中精神,彻底的被毁了。
好在来了美国,在学校里很活跃,学习不差,功课绝大部分在校完成了,有问题老师指导,或助教辅导,再不行的,one-on-one 辅导。如果孩子愿意,放学后还有时间逗留图书馆和体育馆,late bus 送回家。更重要的是孩子有自信,见识很多不需要考试的技能和乐趣,更有自己的社交生活。用孩子校长的一句话,孩子学习的是将来成功的独立生活。
作者: 一个小学生    时间: 2011-9-29 08:57
我们现在上三年级 作业不算太多

个别几次老师留抄词2行 英语单词5行什么的
我就帮她写点 开始的时候用左手 闺女说太难看 老师会让她重写

现在改成右手写 还是不太令闺女满意 没事的时候我就练练
争取在不久的将来可以乱真
作者: rzmg001    时间: 2011-9-29 09:08
今晚孩子有球赛,他们打进了对方11球!!
顺便说,孩子学校的体育项目蛮多的,学校这方面的的条件也很好,正式的英式、美式足球场各一个,田径场一个、网球场一个。我说的正式:有电子分数公布牌、有高射灯,电视拍摄台,观众席。白天可以同时进行6场比赛,非正式的场地是临时划上界线,平常的练习场有几个。

所以功课带回家做,2小时不到做完了。
作者: menghuan    时间: 2011-9-29 10:47
我们二年级,作业其实多吧也不是特别多,但是儿子也有一点磨蹭,也需要做个一个小时左右吧。但儿子的字写得比较不那么入眼,有时候老师让重写,这样就很多了,写半天写不完,有时候,儿子就会说:“妈妈,我上二年级学习压力好大呀,每天那么多作业。要是上三年级,是不是作业更多?”
作者: gloriaji    时间: 2011-9-29 12:10
标题: 回复 #1 hlp525 的帖子
我目前的想法是,相同类型的题目让小朋友做几道,如果理解了,剩下的我就帮她完成。哈哈哈。
作者: 可77    时间: 2011-9-29 12:46
标题: 回复 #27 gloriaji 的帖子
悄悄地说,我也是这个想法。
作者: 盛胜利    时间: 2011-9-29 14:16
标题: 回复 #28 可77 的帖子
我觉得如果课堂的效率高,小学就不应该有超过30分钟的作业。问题是小学老师是不是各个都保证课堂效率高?
作者: niu2006    时间: 2011-9-29 14:20
我们孩子幼儿园中班。平常在外面报培训班,回家也得练习,比如英语,语文。幼儿园也有暑假作业。每天英语、语文、数学各半小时。孩子好像不反感,已经习惯了。但如果难度大就情绪不好了,需要家长耐心。
其实上海很多家长是让孩子超前学,目的是1以后相对其它孩子轻松点,2成绩相对好一些。咱们也只能随大流了。
作者: 如果    时间: 2011-9-29 19:16
我看不懂,E盲惭愧中
作者: 子云    时间: 2011-9-29 22:46
豆才一年级。
豆的学校规定一、二年级不能有笔头作业,可老师有的是办法:语文,以家委会的名义统一买了《轻松练习十五分》、《小学生必背古诗70首》,现在每天做《练习》两页,背诗一首。字要求写好写漂亮,在家你就得自己练习。每天认三个字才能得识字星,于是回家你还得教三个生字。数学要求每天口算十分钟。这些作业加起来,完成时间也差不多一小时了。我们这一代以前回家就玩的好时光早已不在!

适量的作业我觉得能够接受,半小时以内吧。
作者: allyally    时间: 2011-9-29 23:10
标题: 回复 #32 子云 的帖子
"我们这一代以前回家就玩的好时光早已不在!"


呵呵,这种好时光也不是没有啊,我儿子在县城的实验小学读书,每天回来就是写作业,另外我一个侄子在村里小学读,开学一个月了,我几乎就没看见他回来写过作业,要么没布置,要么就是很少,说在学校就写完了,把我儿子给羡慕的啊 ,不知道这到底是好事还是坏事。
作者: lc4601    时间: 2011-9-30 06:56
孩子在一所名校上初中,学校据说中考升学率挺高,作业量不算多,回家1个多小时搞定,不知道3年后的成绩怎样
作者: lc4601    时间: 2011-9-30 07:07
孩子说军训的教官,在同批人中军衔最高,水平也最高,每次带的班都能拿第一。
他们班,训练时间最短,休息时间最长,别的班跟在后面学动作,他们老早就去食堂吃饭,结果轻轻松松得了个汇报演出第一名。
感觉孩子的差异不大,老师的水平更重要。
作者: myprettygirl    时间: 2011-10-3 10:22
我家姑娘小学五年级,每天的作业虽然不多也不少,基本上能在晚饭前做完。晚饭后我们就能多做点自己有兴趣的事:听英语故事,相声,弹钢琴,跑步.......很忙碌也很充实。记得有一次老师罚全班所有小孩把整本语文书上的生字抄两遍,我看到姑娘累得快睡着了,最后我替她把作业完成了。这种没有任何意义的惩罚绝不让小孩家长得变通一下了
作者: 新叶    时间: 2011-10-4 05:53
我老公同事对付学校的作业的办法是,让孩子的妈妈经常和老师暗示,他家的孩子不能逼的,不能有太大的压力,作业估计也是选择性完成吧。
那些晚上写作业写到十几点的,还是家长代完成比较好!
作者: davidzsguo    时间: 2011-10-4 11:50
社会制度不改变,个人的改变有限,但有效
作者: weiwei54    时间: 2011-10-5 14:45
看来大家聊的,也忍不住说两句。

我家孩子刚上小一,所在的学校较有些名气,是以成绩好、作业多著称的。

第一个月学拼音,笔头作业还好,每天写几行拼音数字,口头作业较多,练读拼音、读儿歌、背唐诗等等,我全程盯着,每天搞完基本要一个小时。

我一直挺郁闷,因为我盯着孩子也不磨蹭,写字、做口算的速度都不算慢,为啥总要超过一小时呢。后来有天奶奶回来说,和其他家长交流,有的说要两个半小时,MY GOD!
作者: V3V    时间: 2011-10-6 22:50
我们这有两所名小学我一直在为上哪一所纠结中,看了这个贴子坚定选择那所作业不多的小学。另一所名小学的校长,在每年的新生家长会,自豪地说:我们就是应该教育,如果哪位家长觉得不适应现在就可以退学(作业从一年级就多)。
作者: liucaohan    时间: 2011-10-7 17:15
我家上小二,作业比一年级的时候多了点,但是还可以接受,基本上一个小时可以完成。但据说到三年级,作业起码得两个多小时才能完成,真的很恐怖啊!
作者: 劳尔    时间: 2011-10-7 18:06
我家刚上初一,作业基本能在8:00前完成。此文是何意?回来让儿子产给我听听
作者: 劳尔    时间: 2011-10-7 18:08
如果老师作业太多,我想我会找机会和老师沟通的,不能让教育害了孩子
作者: mary_xing    时间: 2011-10-8 02:13
标题: 回复 #21 大凯小凯 的帖子
你家为什么这样选择啊?小孩子不羡慕大孩子吗?




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