Besides teaching your child animals and plants through books or
pictures, you can also take him to the zoo or the botanical garden
during your free time. By doing so, you open up more learning
opportunities for your child as well as improving your parent and child
relationship.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-11-28 14:26 标题: 培养孩子的“伙伴意识”[转贴] 發現孩子行為有偏差時，父母的態度上不要一味地指責或強迫孩子馬上改正。不如先了解孩子為什麼如此做的原因，再給他正確的觀念。
When discovering your child has certain wrongful behaviors, do not
immediately accuse him or force him to correct himself. You may want to
understand the reasons behind his actions and teach him the appropriate
ways of dealing with specific situations.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-11-28 14:31 标题: 《冷智妈妈拙记》（转自博客－家长论坛） 孩子的洗澡時間也是遊戲及學習的最佳時間，利用一些在洗澡時常玩的玩具可讓孩子抓握、拍打或舀潑等動作。不僅可以訓練孩子肌肉發展，也可以增加親子間的互
動；讓您輕輕鬆鬆地為小朋友洗澡。
Bath time can be a great opportunity for learning and playing games. You
can have your child play with bath toys as a way of practicing certain
movements such as grasping, patting, or splashing. The result is your
child working on his muscle development, and the activity also increases
the interaction between parent and child as well as allowing the parent
to easily bathe the child.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-11-28 14:32 标题: 为你的孩子写成长日记 為孩子選擇玩具時，應以安全優先為考量；易碎或尖銳角應避免。其次可以選擇具教育或訓練性，例如益智積木可以訓練手部肌肉小動作的發展。
Safety should be the first priority when selecting toys for your child.
Avoid toys that are sharp or can be easily broken. Next, choose
educational or developmental toys such as blocks that focus on hand
coordination.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-11-28 14:32 标题: 父亲在育儿生活中起的作用 增進寶寶的語言發展，隨時利用機會例如，幫寶寶洗澡、穿衣；還可以透過這些活動中讓孩子體驗方向概念（上、下、左、右）。
To improve your baby's language development, take advantage of
opportunities such as bath time and getting dressed time. With these
activities, you can teach your child the concept of directions such as
up, down, left and right.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-11-28 14:32 标题: 大家讨论一下：我给孩子封了电视，合适吗？ 鼓勵孩子可以自己進食，而且無論他的吃相如何，避免批評或大聲喝止孩子進食方式。
Encourage your child to eat without your help. Prevent from criticizing
or shouting at him for the way he eats.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-11-28 14:32 标题: [转帖]写好作文专辑1－－如何写好景物 不要拿自己的孩子和別人比較，也不要常對孩子說"如果你有隔壁的小明棒，不知有多好！"；容易造成孩子心理的壓力，而且還會對自己失去自信心。
Avoid comparing your child with others such as asking why he isn't more
like a neighbor's child. By doing so, you may give your child pressure
and affect his self-confidence.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-11-28 14:33
培養孩子的幽默感，不僅可以促進親子間相處的融洽，還可以建立孩子樂觀的態度。
Encouraging your child's sense of humor not only improves the
relationship between you and your child, but also helps your child to
develop an optimistic attitude.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-11-28 14:34 标题: 7月首次儿童奇趣显微镜团购!(人数已够款到发货） 孩子有口吃現象時，父母應注意儘量少問問題，讓孩子表達自己的意思，針對孩子的話簡單評論，讓他知道你聽到他的話便可。
When your child stammers, avoid asking questions but rather let him
express things himself. Then simply give him feedback to let him know
that you heard and understood him.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-11-28 14:34 标题: 谁能提供儿童唐诗300首，带朗读的 平日父母應教導孩子長幼有序的觀念，不可隨意打大人，反之，大人也不該隨意逗弄小孩。
Parents should teach their child the importance of respecting his
elders. He should understand not to hit adults, but on the other hand,
adults should also learn not to take advantage of their authoritative
position.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-11-28 14:35 标题: 自: 论坛团购第二站：神奇的校车和手指猜猜书－－第一次团购正式启动 删除的帖子 可利用製作卡片，協助孩子認識周邊事物，例如將水果類分成剝皮水果及不剝皮水果、動物類分成家禽類及家畜類等。
Assist your child in differentiating things around him by making picture
cards. For example, your child can categorize fruits into peeling and
non-peeling fruits, or animals into domestic or farm animals.[ Last edited by ivy_su on 2003-11-28 at 02:37 PM ]作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-11-28 14:38 标题: 東西圖書公司出版兒童英語圖畫讀本系列CD 從生活中獲得的常識與字彙，孩子會記得更多更快，如帶孩子出門時，路上的招牌看板、超市裡的物品插牌，都是學習認字的活教材。
Children learn more and faster through encounters and observations in
daily life. When taking your child out, street signs and item labels in
the supermarket are useful teaching material for character recognition.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-11-28 14:38 标题: CAI電腦幼教光碟共12片 在為3歲前的孩子說故事的選擇上，應儘量避免太過冒險、驚嚇，甚至會讓孩子害怕的情節，如一些涉及鬼怪的民間故事，都不適合年幼的小小孩。
When selecting storybooks for a 3-year-old child, parents should stay
away from content that may scare their child such as horror or suspense
books.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-11-28 14:39 标题: 宝宝画故事 親子共讀時，內容不一定要從頭唸到尾，任何一頁翻開都可以是一個新故事或是新遊戲，此外，幼兒的專注時間有限，當他表現出不耐或倦意時，就不要勉強繼續進
行了。
When reading with your child, it is not necessary to read the story from
beginning to end. Any opened page can be a whole new story or a new
game. As well, young children have limited concentration, so end the
session when he begins to become impatient or tired.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-11-28 14:39 标题: 求：《融会贯通》新课标高一语文（下） 孩子入學前，不要將老師的形象塑造得太權威，甚至動輒拿老師嚇孩子，一旦孩子怕老師，不但會影響學習，也會影響家長了解孩子的在校表現。
Before your child begins to attend school, prevent from using the idea
of a teacher as an authority figure to be feared. Once your child
becomes afraid of teachers, his learning and behavior in school may be
affected.作者: whlxy 时间: 2003-11-28 14:40 标题: 【转贴】二十四史,二十五史及资治通鉴珍藏版 thank you作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:28 标题: 【转帖】推荐两款实用播音软件 培養孩子的注意力，父母可以購買拼圖，從少塊的拼圖逐漸增加塊數及拼圖的複雜程度，如此孩子集中注意力的時間也會不斷地增加。
To improve your child's attention span, have your child play with
puzzles beginning from a few pieces and then gradually to more difficult
puzzles.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:28
對於動作比較慢的孩子，父母可以配合小朋友的腳步先給他一件短時間內可以完成的工作，待孩子勝任後，再給他一些需要較長時間去完成的工作，在快接近規定的
時間提醒他，讓他有時間的概念，如此漸進地改進。
For a child who is slow in completing tasks, offer him something which
can be done in a short time. After finishing the task, offer him more
tasks which require more time to complete. As well, let him understand
the concept of time by reminding him when time is almost up.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:29 标题: 主题分类被更改问题 父母可設計具挑戰性的遊戲內容，例如：利用「尋寶探險的親子遊戲」給孩子更大的空間來鼓勵他學習去面對問題，並讓他多動腦思考解決問題。
Parents can design some challenging games for their child such as
"treasure hunting". It gives a child more space to learn to face
problems and to solve them.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:29 标题: 【转载推荐】恢复教育的人文性、民主性和公正性 建立孩子用餐禮儀，可讓小朋友在用餐前後，幫忙做一些準備與收拾的簡單工作；用餐中可教育孩子碗筷不可敲敲打打、咀嚼食物中不可說話等。
Teach your child's table manner by asking him to help prepare for a meal
and to clean up after a meal. While eating, teach your child table
etiquette such as not hitting the table with his chopsticks or bowl as
well as not talking with his mouth full.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:30 标题: 一个不错的网站 孩子在學習上，時間愈長並不意味效果越好。「專注力」也會影響學習的效果，注意力的集中時間大約在5~10分鐘，建議任何學習的安排，應以不超過30分鐘
為宜。
In terms of learning, a longer length of time doesn't necessarily mean a
better result. "Concentration" also influences learning result. A child
can concentrate for approximately 5 to 10 minutes. Thus, it is suggested
that any learning activity should not exceed 30 minutes.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:31 标题: 【灌水专区】 宝贝趣事一箩箩 孩子有時會因與其他小朋友玩得過火，或在刺激過多的環境下變得過度興奮或激動；如果因此造成行為失控，可先將孩子帶離現場且轉移他的注意力。
A child may at times become overly excited when playing with other
children or when in a stimulating environment. If the child loses
control, parents should take the child away from the environment and
divert his attention.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:31 标题: 需要海鲜图片，有朋友可以帮助我吗？ 父母對孩子從小就應該建立「長幼」的觀念，如果有弟妹直呼兄姐的名字時，也適時的告訴他應該稱呼哥哥或姐姐；讓年幼的弟妹習慣禮貌的稱謂。
Parents can help with their child's understanding of relationships by
having him say "brother" or "sister" to his siblings.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:31 标题: 三字经 對待個性較為害羞內向且不善表達的孩子，父母除了需要細心的觀察，也可以用比較輕鬆的態度鼓勵孩子說出要求。
Dealing with a child who is shy and unable to express himself, parents
need to carefully observe and encourage him in a calm manner to express
his desires.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:32 标题: 千字文 孩子的各方面學習可以與生活情境相結合，為讓孩子認識日常所吃的「食物」名稱，不妨帶孩子到傳統市場或超級市場一起購買東西。
Use daily situations to teach your child a variety of different things.
To teach your child the names of certain food items, you can take him to
the supermarket to shop together.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:32 标题: 如何培养孩子学习的自觉性 父母平常處理事情的想法或態度上會影響孩子，如果您常用沮喪心情面對事情或嘴上掛著說：「我怎麼那麼倒楣呀！」，反而容易造成孩子日後在事情處理上是悲觀
、負面的態度。
A parent's own opinions and attitudes of dealing with certain situations
can also influence a child. If you face a problem in a negative and
pessimistic manner, such an attitude can lead to your child dealing with
situations in the same way.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:33 标题: 请教:快速翻看家制书的几个问题 當孩子不禮貌的進行一件錯誤的事，而造成他人的不愉快時，父母應該立即阻止且直接地告訴他：「不可以打人喔！」或「你這樣說是很不禮貌的。」
When a child acts impolitely and hurts others, a parent should stop him
immediately and directly tell him that it's wrong to hit others or what
he is doing is impolite.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:33 标题: 我为什么推荐《论语别裁》及其它 為孩子準備屬於他的清潔工具，如：小掃帚、小水桶，讓他負責一小塊地方如遊戲間等，這能增加孩子的責任感以及對勞動的興趣。
Teach your child the importance of household duties. You can have him be
in charge of cleaning a certain area such as the playroom. You want your
child to be responsible but also have fun too!作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:33 标题: 你们的孩子暑假做家务吗？ 父母和孩子在打掃時間時，可一邊勞動、一邊哼唱兒歌或童謠，甚至跟著韻律做動作，讓孩子同時邉又?w又能提昇其語言能力。\r
Parents can take advantage of the time when they are cleaning to do
certain activities with their child. For instance, you can sing together
while you clean. You can even try doing certain movements along with the
music. By doing so, you help your child improve his coordination and
language skills.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:34 标题: 自: 儿童乐曲可下载 删除的帖子 媽媽可利用疊衣服或整理房間時，和孩子玩配對，如：「誰的上衣配上誰的褲子？」、「襪子有幾雙？」等，培養其觀察力與理解力。
Mothers can play matching games with their child when folding clothes or
cleaning. Mommy can ask her child which top goes with which pants or
have him count the pairs of socks to help with his concentration skills.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:34 标题: 奇妙的大自然(2-5岁).iso 加強孩子的空間觀念，父母對寶寶說話時，多用在「裡面」、「上面」、「下面」、「前面」、「後面」、「最上面」、「最下面」等詞語。
To improve a child's concept of space, parents can use adjectives such
as "in", "on", "in front", "in back", "on top" and "at the bottom" when
talking.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-1 09:34 标题: 许愿树怎么了？ 告訴寶寶多注意聽聲音，如聽到草中的啾啾聲，就教他認識蟋蟀的鳴叫聲，池塘邊的呱呱聲便是青蛙的叫聲，機車發動、喇叭聲等等，都可刺激寶寶的聽覺。
Teach your child to be aware of the sounds around him. Teach him that
the chirping sounds in the grass are the sound of crickets. Tell him
that the "ribbit" sounds from the pond are the sound of frogs. As well
as nature sounds, you can also teach your child the sounds of the city.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:20 标题: 求助：六个月的宝宝补哪种钙好？ 培養孩子思考能力，可以常和孩子玩躲貓貓的遊戲，讓孩子先思考要躲哪裡，利用什麼方式藏起來比較不被發現，然後讓孩子自己去實驗各種方式，引導他選擇最佳
方案。
To improve your child's thinking ability, play Hide and Seek with him.
This game gives him a chance to think about where to hide, and ways to
hide so that he won't be found. Have your child go through all the
different methods and help him find the best solution.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:20 标题: 大家怎么给孩子喂药？有没有不用吃药的好办法治疗泻肚？ 經常向孩子問問題可以促進孩子的思考能力，但父母的問題若太難，超過孩子的理解能力，反而會讓孩子感到挫折而對學習失去信心。
Posing questions to your child will help his thinking ability. However,
if the questions are too difficult or beyond his comprehension, the
child may end up feeling frustrated and lose confidence in learning.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:21 标题: 补种：＜融会贯通＞高一数学（新课标） 給孩子零用錢可以幫助孩子培養理財觀念，但父母千萬不要把零用錢和做家事聯繫在一起，因為分擔家務是每個家庭成員的義務，更不要把零用錢當作獎懲的手段，
誤導孩子。
Giving a child an allowance can teach him the concept of money
management. However, avoid associating pocket money with doing
housework. Household chores are every family member's duty. As well,
never use pocket money as a form of reward or punishment which can
mislead a child.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:21 标题: 迷你故事 孩子有許多經驗的取得，必須在獨立面對及經歷各種嘗試錯誤的過程中去獲得，建議您可以讓孩子在安全的環境下獨處，即使他碰到挫折了開始吵鬧，家長可以用聲
音先安撫他，等到手邊的工作完成後再去抱他。
Give your child the opportunity to act and experience things
independently. Provide a safe environment for your child to play and let
him know you are near. Comfort him with your voice when he expresses
doubt or negativity and give him a hug when you are done with your own
work.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:22 标题: 请教EDU:你认为人文精神和科学精神很难统一么？ 現代父母常常因為忙於工作而沒有時間參予孩子的遊戲與學習，造成孩子「沒人陪我」的強力感覺，並藉由「不肯自己做」來引起父母的注意，只要父母多付出一些
關心滿足孩子的需求，情況就會慢慢的好轉。
At times, parents may be too busy to take part in their child's games
and learning. As a result, the child may feel alone. As well, he may
refuse to do things himself in order to get attention from the parents.
As long as parents give more attention and care to the child's needs,
such a situation will improve.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:22 标题: 今天再来求《最新汉语拼音》的种子 帶孩子出外買玩具，父母可以依據孩子的能力事先和孩子約定，譬如先約好必須要用走的去玩具店，如果孩子半途要父母抱，就帶他回家。利用事件讓孩子體會「唯
有靠自己的努力，才可以達到心中想要的結果」。
Set the rules of behavior with your child prior to going out shopping
for toys. For example, a parent may ask the child to walk rather than be
carried during the trip. If a child asks to be carried along the way,
then the only place he'll be carried is home. Through experience, your
child will learn that achieving a goal will require his own efforts.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:23 标题: 请大家都来投票：孩子英语学习的最大障碍是什么？ 父母平時要避免一些恐嚇性的言語，以免造成孩子錯誤的印象，例如常常威脅孩子「不乖就帶你去看醫生、打針」反而讓孩子誤解治療的意義，真正生病時就更不合
作了！
Avoid the use of threatening language which can mislead a child. For
instance, threatening to take a misbehaving child to see the doctor may
result in a sick child refusing to seek medical treatment.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:23 标题: 转贴：Harry Potter & The Half-Blood Prince声音文件 帶孩子看醫生前，可以和孩子解說醫生看缘那闆r，例如「醫生伯伯會叫你張開嘴巴，看看你的喉嚨......」，讓孩子先有心理準備，不會害怕看醫生！
Before taking your child to the doctor, let him know what to expect. For
example, you can explain to him that the doctor will ask him to open his
mouth to check his throat. By knowing what to expect, your child will be
less nervous about visiting the doctor.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:23 标题: 自: 请大家都来投票：孩子英语学习的最大障碍是什么？ 删除的帖子 父母可藉著平常孩子所喜歡的童謠或故事，讓他一遍遍反覆地聽；這可是培養興趣的一個不錯的方法。
A good way to elevate a child's learning interest is to allow him to
repeatedly listen to his favorite nursery rhymes or stories.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:24 标题: 可爱的信纸 可以從每天規律的生活起居來建立孩子對時間的觀念。例如，當您準備讓孩子就寢時，雖然他還不會看數字，父母還是可以指著時鐘說：「現在九點鐘要準備上床睡
覺囉！」。
Teach your child the concept of time by linking time with a certain
routine. For example, you can point to the clock and tell your child the
time even if he can't read the numbers. Then, ask your child to get
ready for bed.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:24 标题: 地图上的故事 大人往往是小孩的鏡子也是他模仿的對象，父母如果有挑食、偏食的習慣，往往就容易影響孩子而造成營養上的不均衡。
A child looks up to adults and sees them as people to imitate. Thus, the
behavior of adults can significantly affect a child. For example, if his
parents only eat particular foods, the child may be influenced by his
parents' eating habits which may mean an unbalanced diet.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:24
提昇孩子的記憶能力，可以透過記憶數字遊戲。例如在紙上寫下5-10組的數字，一分鐘後讓孩子在時間內寫出所記憶的數字。
One can help a child's memory skills by playing numerical memory games.
For example, write down five numbers or so and then have your child
write down all the numbers he can remember within an allotted time.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:25 标题: 一组线描填色图 父母在教孩子認識一些「名詞」時，可以配合東西的形狀、數量及顏色，讓孩子在表達能力上可以更具體且明白。例如：「一個圓形黃色的橘子」。
When teaching a child to identify certain nouns, use the ideas of shape,
amount and color to encourage your child to be more clear and specific.
For example, instead of saying "a lemon", he can say "a round, yellow
lemon."作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:25 标题: 〔超级经典〕宠物小精灵（tv）1－275＋剧场版（真正国语＋中文字幕） 對孩子來說，可以摸的、看的東西都可以是玩具。父母習慣用既定的方法來限制孩子使用，反而容易抑制孩子的創造力及想像力。
To a child, anything that can be seen and touched is a prospective toy.
Parents may hinder a child's creativity and imagination by limiting the
ways in which the child can play with certain objects.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:25 标题: [BT下载]Baby Einstein Collection 和 英语动画 父母動不動就會說「孩子那麼小哪會聽音樂」、「影片內容對小孩太難了」......。通常大人對「困難」或「容易」的定義是不太適用於孩子，倒不如用順其
自然的方式讓孩子接收各方面的資訊。
Parents may judge the difficulty level of certain things such as music
and movies for their child. What an adult assumes as easy and difficult
differs from that of a child. Thus, have your child take in information
in his own way.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:25 标题: 学什么画？ 教導孩子確保自身的安全，從日常生活中就可以常常灌輸孩子，對於陌生人所給的糖果、玩具應先問過父母。「什麼是對的、是可以做的」或「哪些是不可以、是不
對」等觀念的判斷能力。
Teach your child the importance of his own safety. Help him to
differentiate between "right" and "wrong". For instance, it is the right
thing to do to ask one's parents before accepting something from a
stranger.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:26 标题: [转帖]写给所有哭过的男人 愉快的用餐氣氛可促進食慾並幫助消化，父母可以帶頭在吃飯時講些輕鬆的笑話、誇獎孩子或是感謝的話等，溫暖用餐的情緒；即使孩子的行為需要教訓，也請不要
利用吃飯時間算帳。
A happy atmosphere at the dinner table promotes healthy appetites and
good eating. Parents can tell a funny story or compliment the child on
what's he's done during the day as a way to improve the dining mood.
Avoid using meal time to scorn your child for his misbehaviors.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:26 标题: 跪求黄房子英语！ 即使是幼兒，父母也不必凡事都為其做決定；給孩子一個範圍，然後由他自己做選擇，逐漸培養其獨立自主的精神。例如：幫孩子洗完澡後，媽媽可以先準備好幾套
合適的衣服，讓孩子從中挑選喜歡的穿。
Even if your child is quite young, parents should avoid making all his
decisions. Give him a certain range of freedom so that he may be
encouraged to be independent. For example, after bathing your child,
have him choose what he would like to wear for the day.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:27 标题: 如何让Win XP减肥的十大酷招 孩子不乖乖吃飯，一頓飯時間拖得好長，讓媽媽很煩惱；此時可以請孩子和定時器比賽，看是飯會先吃完？還是嗶嗶會先響？
If your child is unable to behave himself at the dinner table or is
having a difficult time finishing his meal, have him try to compete with
a stop clock to finish before an allotted time.作者: ivy_su 时间: 2003-12-4 13:27 标题: 【分享】 07月28日 破解软件更新 不要因為孩子年紀小就讓他恃寵而嬌，任由他霸佔著喜歡的電視節目；應明確地訂出幼兒的電視時間，同時也趁機教導他尊重其他人的喜好。
Be in control of your child's television viewing habits from a young
age. Set the amount of time he is allowed to watch television and teach
him to respect other's television interests.